Chapter 2260 examines our marriage

Chapter 2262 examines our marriage

"What happened?" Zhou Shengbei Qian put away the joke on his face. "What the **** is going on? He bullied you?"

"No." The voice of the cloud painting is very low. "I probably, I have to re-examine my marriage and marry him... Is it too sloppy..."

In the case of cloud painting, Zhou Shengbei was relieved.

He sat down opposite her. "What happened?"

"Nothing."

"Nothing, you will say this." Zhou Sheng Bei Qian’s face is very serious. "Drawing, is it... he bullied you?"

The tears of the cloud painting suddenly fell.

She turned her head and didn't want to be seen by herself.

Zhou Shengbei Qian reached out and wanted to help her wipe her tears.

Cloud painting blocked his hand. "Don't worry about me, I'm fine."

"I am going to find him!" he whispered. "I would like to ask him why he is doing this to you!"

Cloud painting wiped his tears and looked up at him. "No."

"Drawing, it’s time for this, are you still thinking about him? Did he think for you? He will not bear to hurt you if he puts you in his heart!"

Zhou Sheng Beiqian’s voice was very cold. “You saved his life and saved him twice! He owes you two lives! But how is he against you? How can he bear, how to be willing!”

The cloud painting bowed and coveted. "Save him is my will, and has nothing to do with him."

"Painting!" Zhou Shengbei Qian was really angry. "What is it that has nothing to do with him? Isn't the person you saved not him? Can you live today without him? If he doesn't love you, he should at least be grateful to you. Did he do it?"

The cloud painting was silent for a while, slowly looking up, and the eyes were covered with a mist of water. "I thought... you will help him talk. After all, you have always been to him... so respectful and respectable."

"It doesn't matter to those." Zhou Shengbei Qian said, "I will never forget his kindness to me when I was young, but this does not mean that everything he does must be recognized by me. Especially... you! I... I can't believe it now, he will be like this to you!"

Cloud painting did not speak.

Zhou Sheng Bei Qian is a look of anger. "Is it really so great that the effect of amnesia on people is so big? Will it fundamentally change the character of a person? I am very strange to him, he should not be like this."

Cloud painting chuckled, "Maybe because I shouldn't force him to marry me, it's a danger."

"What is the danger of being awkward!" Zhou Shengbei Qian was helpless and distressed. "You will save his life regardless of his life and death. He will also bear the testimony with him. He should be thankful that he should be grateful. You are so good, it is his match." Not you!"

"If you say it again, you can't hide the fact that I am forced to marry." Cloud painting chuckles.

"Talking Uncle and Ji Xiao's aunt are also thinking about you. They know that you have never been to death for him, and they have never been able to come out. For them, if you really like him so much, then rule out all the hardships with him. Marry, stay with him, as long as you can be happy." Zhou Sheng Bei Qian said, "For him, it is an honor to be able to marry you. What is he dissatisfied with?"

"What about me now?" Cloud painting looked at Zhou Shengbei Qian, "Married, disillusioned?"

Zhou Shengbei Qian looked at her for a while and whispered, "Sometimes, like a person, not really love, just a kind of obsession. You think that being with him will be happy, but actually you are together, just Pain. Maybe..."

"Maybe?"

"Maybe you don't love him as much as you think."

Cloud paintings stunned and muttered to himself. "Perhaps... I am not as good as I thought... so love him?"

"Ask yourself, ask your heart." Zhou Shengbei Qian's voice is very light and light. "You like him, become a habit, and completely banned yourself. You experience life and death together, and you give up your life. Save him more than once... There is a psychological effect called the sunk cost effect, which can be used in many things, including feelings."

"Sinking the cost effect, in simple terms, the more you pay, the harder it will be. After a long time, it will become a kind of obsession! In fact, you may not like that person anymore, but you have already paid so much, like It’s been so long for him that you can’t easily say let go, it’s harder to see your heart easily.”

Zhou Shengbei Qian reached out and touched her hair. "The longer you are eroded by this effect, the longer your obsession will remain. Once you really get his response, you can suddenly relax after you have truly possessed him. You will find yourself obsessed with the past, it seems very inexplicable, let yourself say that you may not understand why you are so so so like..."

"Don't be afraid."

Zhou Shengbei Qian whispered, "Not that you have changed, but you have not liked him so much early, support you, just obsessive, you have not changed, but you are tired. Over-paid like, It will be tired. When you have faded out of this filter, you will find that many aspects of him, in fact, you did not like it before, you just have to endure and endure unconsciously..."

Cloud painting reached out and licked his own temple.

After a while, she turned to look at Zhou Shengbei Qian. "What you mean is that my love for him is more due to my obsession with him, because I paid too much to him, so I Can't you let go?"

"I think so." Zhou Shengbei Qian's tone is very dull.

His attitude does not make you feel any offense, which a professional psychiatrist can do.

He won't comment on your actions and thoughts, won't say where you are doing wrong, and won't judge whether you are stupid. He will only tell you the truth in the calmest way, which will minimize your inner shame.

Many people are ashamed to face psychiatrists because they are afraid to hear others’ comments on themselves and fear others to blame themselves...

The cloud painting is silent. "I don't know if it is, but I... I will never forget that when I was in the lowest valley of my life, he pulled me out of the abyss and she saved me."

"Drawing, it is not him who saves you, it is you." Zhou Shengbei Qian’s expression is very sincere. "At that time, you already had a very serious tendency to depression, but you didn't know it yourself."

"……is it?"

"He asked me to give you a diagnosis. At that time, he wanted to stare at you again, so I couldn't give you an accurate notification of the condition by means of testing. I can only do it for you by talking to you. Judgment. This is actually a violation of regulations, but because you are the person he cares about, I will violate the rules for him."

(End of this chapter)