Chapter 359：

Our people can't go to the futures company to grab it.

After talking to the uncle, the uncle became stupid. Only left unconsciously. The colleagues who dealt with this matter didn't care. After all, anyone who lost 200,000 yuan should be uncomfortable, but he did not expect to commit suicide by jumping off the building that night. According to the suicide note analysis, the reason for suicide should be due to owe. The money is not enough and the pressure is too great.

This happened last night, and I just learned the whole story. "

Chen Yi heard what Wang Ze said for a long time. When he heard Wang Ze said that the person who jumped off the building was the middle-aged uncle he had known before, he probably guessed the whole story. This result was not too unexpected to him, but he guessed it was one thing, and Wang Ze said it was another thing.

After that, Chen Yi sighed and slowly said, "Oh, I regret that I helped him in the first place. If I didn't help him in the first place, I would have lost 100,000 yuan. After the pain, I should not continue. After all, After being bitten by a snake for ten years, I’m afraid of the ropes. I won’t end up with the results I have now.” After listening to Chen Yi’s words, Wang Ze was silent for a while and said: “Yi, you don’t have to blame yourself like this, you’ve done a good job. . I know that you are very kind, but you are not a god, you can’t help everyone., You’ve done your best, haven’t you?”

Chen Yi said: "But I had already seen what was wrong with him at the time. After seeing him, I might continue to sink. But I just persuaded him and didn’t care. If I insisted on it then, if I continued Tell him one more thing, maybe it won’t be like this."

Wang Ze sneered after hearing Chen Yi's words: "Yi, kindness is a good quality, but excessive kindness is stupid. You came forward to help him solve the problem without knowing him, and got it back. I was defrauded of 100,000 yuan, and when I saw that his condition was not good, he kindly reminded me a few words. Isn't this enough?

What else should I do if this is not enough? Follow him all the time? I will stare at him for the rest of my life, and remind him every time he wants to make stocks? are you kidding? "

Chen Yi said: "But people are dead, now everyone is dead."

After a moment of silence, Wang Ze said, "Yi, what I will say later is based on my own knowledge. I still don't know if it is right or wrong, but you can refer to it.

Do you think it is right to benefit others or to benefit oneself in life? Although sometimes the two do not conflict, when the two conflict, you must choose one of the two. Which one do you choose? I don't know your answer, but I tell you, I choose selfishness. The reason is simple because of human nature. If I am capable, I will definitely help others, but if I am not capable, I must first ensure that I can survive.

There is a famous theory in economics-the market is an invisible hand. When everyone considers themselves very rationally, society will develop in a better direction.

But this is not to say that we have to be selfish. Everything has a degree. Just grasp the degree. For example, I and the people around me are starving to death. Now I only have one steamed bun. If one person eats, the person who does not eat will die. If I and the other person are not relatives, I will definitely eat it by myself, but when I have a lot of steamed buns, I have eaten enough, and now there is someone who does not eat it on the road. Will die, then I will definitely give him buns.

I believe you are the same, most people are the same, right? I think this example can illustrate the importance of "degree" very well.

Why should I tell you this "degree". In this industry, there are many so-called "losing others and benefiting oneself". For example, those short-term players in the stock market make money and lose money, right? What kind of money do people who make money make? Because the time is relatively short, the quality of the company itself will not change much. The money that those who make money is basically the money that people who lose money lose. This is the so-called "losing others and benefiting oneself". It is wrong to harm others and benefit oneself. But are these people who are short-term stock traders wrong?

There seems to be nothing wrong, right? Then why is it like this?

Let me give you another example. When I first entered the industry, I met an investor. His father was seriously ill, but he lost his eyes in this market. He invested all his father’s medical treatment money in the stock market. After a while, he didn't expect to lose everything. His father was driven out of the hospital because he didn't have money to treat the illness. In the end, he watched his father die in pain at home.

But at that time the company made money. In the company's money, there is likely to be the investor's money to treat his father. In this case, do you think I should be guilty?

Do you understand it better then? We don’t have to be guilty, right? Because we are making money legally and reasonably, the consequences of their loss have nothing to do with us, even if they do not have us, they will lose money. We just need to make sure that they still use money for stocks in this situation, and it is not what we persuade.

Look at this middle-aged uncle who jumped off the building. Isn’t it the same? As long as you don’t persuade him to do stocks, it’s okay. The rest has nothing to do with you. You have helped him, but the manpower is sometimes poor. You try your best and there is no result. That is nothing, right? "

Chen Yi heard what Wang Ze said: "Yes, yes, but I always feel uncomfortable. I always think this is my fault. I always think I should be able to help this middle-aged uncle. In short, I always feel that uncomfortable."

Wang Ze’s smiling voice came over the phone, and Wang Ze said: “Understandably, in fact, everyone has compassion. Everyone wants to help others. This is normal, but help belongs to help. Help itself is only An action is just a process and does not necessarily have a result, so you only need to make sure that your starting point is well-intentioned, and that the process and methods you help are appropriate. There is no need to demand the result. For example, I have said this time before. Not only did you persuade me. Brother Dong Hai and I have also persuaded me, but he didn’t listen. What can I do?

To be honest, even if you persuade a few more words, do you think it will be useful? "

Hearing what Wang Ze said, Chen Yi was silent. He knew that what Wang Ze said was correct, but when I think about it, something like this happened to the people who were chatting with him on the train not long ago, especially if he clearly expected it. There may be undesirable consequences when it arrives, which can be prevented, but it has not been prevented.

Wang Ze continued: "Where is this? You have to remember that in this industry, if someone makes money, some people lose money. They are bankrupt. They can't accept the reality. They can't stand the pressure and jump off the building, thinking about the dead. exist.

But what about this? Isn't it because of this? Does this industry need not exist anymore? If you really think so, then you can change your career. This career is not suitable for you. You will only feel more painful if you do in this career.

To be honest, I think there will be more or less problems in this industry or in other industries. This is a normal thing, nothing is perfect.

Life is the same. In life, there will be many things and many competitions. When there is competition, there will be priorities, and there will be differences in treatment. This is true from the exam ranking when I was a child to the performance competition at work. When you rank higher than others, you gain resources or benefits that others do not have. You are depriving others of their resources. If you think this so-called "harming others and benefiting yourself" is problematic, then you can think about your life , Is it the bottom of everything?

In fact, I feel that if you are alive, you can have a clear conscience. It's not that God can't make everyone satisfied. As long as you are worthy of the sky, you are worthy of the earth, and you have a clear conscience. "Chen Yi was silent for a while after hearing what Wang Ze said. In fact, Chen Yi also knew the truth, but he had always felt a little guilty before. The purpose of asking Wang Ze was not to let Wang Ze help him out, but just hoping to help him. Some people just affirm their opinions and opinions.

Chen Yi thanked Wang Ze and hung up the phone. After hanging up, Chen Yi shook his head to get rid of the mess in his mind, and then bowed his head to eat his own dinner.

After dinner, Chen Yi returned to the hotel, after which his phone rang. Chen Yi is very strange, who is calling himself? You must know that no one is looking for yourself at ordinary times.

I picked up the phone and found that the name displayed on the caller ID was "Master". Seeing that it was Chen Yan's call, Chen Yi quickly picked it up and said, "Hey, Master, why did you remember to call me?"

There was a moment of silence on the phone, and Chen Yan's angry voice came: "Why? I'm not welcome to call you?" With the increase in contact, both Chen Yan and Xu Kun knew that Chen Yi often had no one when he was casual. Formal, but when it comes to work, I get into the state very quickly, so I leave it to Chen Yi.

It is said that it is easy to learn bad, and hard to learn well. A little bit, if there are no outsiders present, Chen Yan and Xu Kun will occasionally make a fuss with Chen Yi and make jokes when they are not discussing business matters.

Chen Yi grinned and said: "How come, Master, you can call whenever you want, I promise to be by the phone at any time, waiting for instructions."