Chapter 326：

Chen Yan heard what Xu Kun said, and fortunately stood up, walked to the table of Chen Yi and Xu Kun, pulled a chair from the side and sat down, looked at Xu Kun and said: "What you just said I heard more or less, I didn't mean to eavesdrop on purpose, don't mind."

Xu Kun waved his hand to indicate that it was okay. The chat between them didn't want to avoid anyone else. It didn't matter whether others heard it or not. Xu Kun looked at Chen Yan and motioned to Chen Yan to continue.

Chen Yan said: "I didn't hear it completely. Perhaps the thing is that your company had some tricks before. You know, although you didn't directly participate, you can't get through with your conscience.

There is a colleague in your company who is a relative of yours. He talked with you not long ago and advised you not to think so much and let you not worry about them.

Then you listened to persuasion for a while and no longer cared about those some or none, but for some reason you found out with your conscience the other two days.

The person your company is going to design this time is the kid sitting across from you. You found out that you had told this little subsidiary's tricks, and then you started to do it first. You found the regulator and reported it to the regulator. The behavior of the company.

After reporting, it turns out that your relative has already reported your company before you, but the regulatory agency has not taken action for the time being. Your proactive report has reduced the possible punishment for you, but you feel that you have been betrayed. Obviously, you just advised you to let it go, but you turned your head and reported the company to the regulatory agency. If you didn't find it out of your own conscience, you might be punished severely.

In this way, you are dissatisfied with your relative and feel that you have been betrayed. Am I right about this matter? "

Xu Kun nodded and said, "That's right, it's not wrong."

Chen Yan continued: "What are you entangled with? You entangled that your relative betrayed you? What about you? Didn't you betray him?"

Xu Kun frowned and said, "What do you mean? Why should I betray him..." Xu Kun's words stopped abruptly before they were finished. Xu Kun's eyes opened wide, and his pupils shrank instantly, and his eyes disappeared. The focal length, as if remembering something.

Chen Yan was not in a hurry. After waiting for a while, he gave Xu Kun some time to think: "It seems that you have thought about it. The relative you blamed didn't tell you that he reported your company and cheated you. But how did you do it? You know exactly what attitude he has towards your company's affairs, but when you decided to help the guy opposite you go to the regulator to report the company with him, why didn't you? The relative who asked you to talk about it first? Why didn't you bring him?" Chen Yan picked up the cup on the table and poured himself a glass of water to moisturize his throat, and said, "Now the result is that your relative first reported it. If he didn’t report the company, it’s really fine if you and the guy opposite you reported the company, but what about your relatives? If he didn’t report your company, then he would not be the one who was cheated by then. NS?

Do you think he betrayed you now? Didn't you betray him?

You are dissatisfied with his behavior. Is he dissatisfied with your performance?

There is nothing right or wrong about the behavior of the two of you. Since you are doing this yourself, you don't have to feel entangled in other people's behaviors, rest assured, relax, and want to start. "

It may be the reason why Chen Yan was on the sidelines, or it may be because Chen Yan has more experience and directly pointed out the key to the problem, which made Xu Kun fall into contemplation. Xu Kun had been entangled with other people's mistakes before, and he was recalling these things. In the beginning and end, I always found some reasonable reasons for my part.

For example, I listened to Wang Ze's advice because I wanted to maintain the livelihood of the family and ensure the life of the family. My conscience discovered that it was because after listening to my wife, I couldn't helplessly watch more people jump into the fire pit and save one or the other.

In his mind, every decision he made, every action he made was right, all correct, and all had reasonable reasons and reasons. There was nothing wrong with this.

Xu Kun's fault was that he knew that his actions were correct and had reasonable reasons, but he didn't wonder if the actions of others were correct. Is there a reasonable reason? Xu Kun has always been looking at everything around him from his own perspective. To put it bluntly, he is self-centered and does not understand empathy.

In fact, regardless of the reason, just look at the behavior of Xu Kun and Wang Ze, how similar are their behaviors? Basically it is exactly the same, but Xu Kun feels that what he did is right, and what Wang Ze did is wrong. The reason is that he did it to help Chen Yi, completely ignoring that he did not intend to report the company. The facts told to Wang Ze did not take into account the impact of his actions on Wang Ze.

When Xu Kun commented on Wang Ze, Xu Kun simply started from his own point of view, thinking about the impact of Wang Ze’s actions on him, and what troubles Wang Ze’s actions caused to him, Wang Ze How can I feel sorry for my behavior. Although these are facts, Wang Ze's behavior is indeed tantamount to betraying Xu Kun to some extent.

Things are facts, but if you put them together for evaluation, the problem will arise. Why do you want others to see whether their actions affect you? Do not reflect on your own behavior whether your behavior has an impact on others? When evaluating your own behavior, just find a reasonable argument? Isn't this a self-centered double standard?

Chen Yan understood this at once, so what Chen Yan said before was "there is no need to entangle," because Xu Kun did the same to Wang Ze.

Xu Kun still didn’t say a word. Chen Yi was indeed silent when he heard what Chen Yan said. Chen Yi is not stupid because he has less social experience. He is not very experienced in getting along with people. So if you let Chen Yi Qu said so that Chen Yi really couldn't do it in a short time, but after Chen Yan had broken the problem, Chen Yi as a bystander was naturally the key to grasping the problem quickly.

Chen Yi recalled the conversation between Wang Ze and Xu Kun in the reception room that day. He didn’t think there was anything but that there was something wrong between the two. Now think about it again. It is estimated that Wang Ze had already realized this at the time. Will it be so peaceful? Chen Yi couldn't help but sighed in his heart when he thought of this. It turned out that he was very tired of Wang Ze after hearing what Xu Kun said, and he felt very sympathetic to Xu Kun. He hated people who betrayed his friends, let alone relatives, who were already very trusting. After being betrayed, Chen Yi felt the same under empathy.

But now Chen Yi is not so tired of Wang Ze, nor does he sympathize with Xu Kun so much. On the contrary, in Chen Yi's mind, Xu Kun slightly declined because of the double standard position, while Wang Ze's position improved somewhat.

Xu Kun is not a person who admits to death. After listening to Chen Yan's statement, he no longer struggles. He knows that Chen Yan is right. He hasn't done something himself. Why should others be required to do it?

Xu Kun looked up at Chen Yan and said sincerely: "Boss, thank you, if it weren’t for your words, I don’t know how long I will struggle with it. You are right. I have no position to blame others, myself. At that time, I didn't think so much. I didn't even think of telling my colleague. He should be the same. I don't hate him anymore. Thank you boss."

Chen Yan saw that Xu Kun quickly realized his mistake, and after realizing the mistake, he confessed it happily. Without a trace of muddling, Chen Yan smiled and gave Xu Kun a thumbs up silently in his heart.

Before Chen Yi came, Chen Yan already knew that Chen Yi was a Ruiming investor. Just after listening to the conversation between Chen Yi and Xu Kun, it became clear that Xu Kun and Chen Yi were colleagues and also Ruiming investors. It's just that Xu Kun hadn't come to the company when he was driven away by Ruiming Investment, and he didn't know much about this young man.

Whether in life or at work, Chen Yan has seen too many people who are not aware of their problems, and most of them cannot accept them with a normal heart after others have pointed out their problems. Always feel that others are responsible for yourself, always stick to your own opinions, especially when your own opinions are correct.