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Mei Ling and Qing Er chatted warmly as they walked out. Mei Ling had a smile on his face and Qing Er had a smile on his face as well.

Seeing me, Mei Ling made a fuss about nothing: "Director Jiang, you are too mean!"

"Oh …" I nodded: "Thank you President May for your appreciation, thank you President May for your support, I welcome President May to learn English …"

I patted Qing Er's shoulder. "Heh heh … only introduced him to her on that matter, she did not mention anything about the blind date at all. That is her private matter, it doesn't matter, it has nothing to do with us. "

"It has nothing to do with us?" Qing Er repeated, and asked me: "Really?"

I tried to smile. "Yeah, do you think it has something to do with you?"

"Of course, of course, I do. Don't pretend, you know in your heart that you're very concerned about it. You said it has nothing to do with you, but in fact, you care about it more than anyone else!" Qing Er's tone of voice surprised me a little. She was a bit too straightforward.

Qing Er looked at me with an unfathomable gaze and laughed for some reason. Then, she moved closer to me and changed the topic.

I also lowered my voice and said, "It's good. Don't make any noise. Don't use your gun."

"Mm …" "They snuck into the village and didn't even need to use guns!" Qing Er nodded and smiled at me: "I think you're an agent!"

Just then, Qin Juan also came out. "Cousin brother, you're back! "I've already packed up the classrooms …"

"Mm …" I nodded, then said to Qing Er and Qin Juan: "Let's go back."

"Eh? Where's number three?" Qing Er looked left and right, "This guy even said he wanted us to go back!"

"Third brother and Sister Lan went out long ago. I saw the two of them driving out the moment you started your lecture. I didn't see anyone return …" Qin Juan said.

"Oh …" I nodded. "Then forget it, let's take a taxi back!"

Thus, we locked the door and closed the window, then went out together to hail a taxi. After waiting for a long time and seeing that there was no taxi, Qing Er suggested that we walk back, in order to train our legs.

The three of us walked back together, Qin Juan at the front and Qing Er and I at the back.

On the way back, I asked Qing Er about her coming here to study. "How could it be such a coincidence that we met her?"

Qing Er took my arm and leaned on my body: "How would I know, when Juan Juan and I were just about to take a taxi outside, she suddenly popped up, she's driving a white Toyota, she said that it was her own car, she just bought a private car, usually she can't get out, only private matters only drive out, she asked us where we want to go, I said that I wanted to go to school, I wanted to go to Ol 'Three's, not her, she insisted on giving me a lift, it was hard for her to refuse. On the way, Juan Juan and I asked her, and she said that it was my turn.

Mei Ling already had a private car, and it was even an upscale Toyota car. It was awesome, in those years, there were very few people who had private cars, other than those who were doing business, who would have a private car? Who would dare to own a private car? But, Mei Ling dared, she dared whatever, she liked to show off, liked to show off, liked to show off.

This characteristic ended up destroying her entire life.

"You accepted her tuition fee?" I asked Qing Er.

"How would I dare? Your leader, I dare to charge tuition fees?" I wouldn't dare to lend her two guts to her again, "Qing Er laughed out loud." She was pretending to give out the money, but I stopped her, say who she is, don't mind us, she said a few words of courtesy and then gave up, she even said that she knew how to do things …

"Mm …" At least you know how to do things, "I nodded." She doesn't need this little bit of money, nor do we need this little bit of money. "What's more, this person doesn't like to study at all. I'm curious, why did she suddenly remember to learn …"

Cousin, Cousin, I saw this President May you were talking about just now. Tonight, she didn't even listen to a minute of lessons, going around everywhere, waving and waving, shaking hands with this, greeting that guy, and saying that she is now the vice president of subcounty, and then saying that the Mr Xu that opened them is the girlfriend of one's subordinates. After a while, she would come over and chat with him. Qin Juan turned her head and said.

"Hehe …" I saw it during my lecture, "Qing Er said." I feel that this President May doesn't seem to be here to learn, but instead seems to be using this class to do public relations. They would whisper during class and travel back and forth between classes.

I understand, Mei Ling isn't here to learn, she is here to use this opportunity to show off and show off her skills. With her personality, she wouldn't let go of any chance to show off her skills in a situation where there are leaders and officials around, this is her real reason for coming here.

At the same time, Mei Ling's main purpose of being in the limelight was to flaunt herself in front of the subcounty cadres.

"feng-ge, actually, I can see that you, as a female leader, really like to show off," Qing Er said. "In fact, from a psychological perspective, women who like to show off usually do it because they lack a sense of security and feel inferior …"

"Hehe …" Are you saying that Mei Ling lacks a sense of security? Self-abasement? " I laughed. "Ridiculous, no?"

"Listen to me," Qing Er shook my arm. "Many people would meet this kind of woman at work, who likes to flaunt her unusual relationship with her boss in order to find out her identity and role. This is manifested in psychological insecurity, too much self-esteem, and limited self-ability; she tends to think that she is less capable than others, less confident, and does not know how to build on her team, so she takes other ways to highlight her value … "

"Oh …" Why did this happen? What are the capital and motives of such a woman? Analyze it for me, Mr Xu! " I teased Qing Er.

Qing Er raised her fist and punched me on the shoulder, "Hee hee … You call me Mr Xu too, call me that again. "

"Mr Xu —" I dragged out my voice.

Qing Er was jumping with joy, "Haha … "It's fun."

"You haven't answered my question?" "No," I said.

"Oh …" "Alright, let me answer it. Let me combine it with your answer as President Mei Ling …" For example, she will brag that she doesn't have any malicious intent towards President May. It's just that when she comes to a certain place, she likes to emphasize her special identity and advantages, so that there will be an additional layer of light on her head. However, as time goes by, her abilities and level will become apparent, and she will easily be exposed …

"At the same time, such a person, in order to achieve a certain purpose of the individual, would, if the focus and special relationships she created on herself were not noticed by others, turn to the fabrication of so-called insider information in order to show her superiority. She especially likes to spread gossip about interpersonal relationships among the upper echelons, which are often inconclusive and easily believed; and by means of this information, she can also raise her own unique status. "For such a woman, if the people around her were to trust her, they would spread the rumor. On the contrary, it would cause some harm to the main character of the rumor …"

I listened, my heart thumping, the expression on my face a little unnatural.

"A lot of women like to show off, and it's also because of their inferiority complex," Qing Er did not notice my expression, and continued, "Look at those women who are confident in themselves, such as Liu Yue, she is a woman with true temperament and self-confidence. She never boasts about what she has, never tells anyone about what books she has read, how many Big Leadership she knows, how many places she has been to, how many clothes she has, and what jewelry she has bought, why? It's because she doesn't have a feeling of inferiority, and Mei Ling, on the other hand, I think that deep in her heart, she might be feeling inferior due to her ignorance and emptiness, which is why she tried so hard to show off and make up for it … "

I agree with what Qing Er said very much.

"Hee hee …" This is what I learned from reading psychological books recently, "Qing Er said." Actually, this kind of woman is everywhere, even our department has her. As for me, I read about this in conjunction with the books and Sister Lan's teachings on how to deal with such a person in the Corydalis.

"What good idea?" I asked Qing Er.