The relationship between Lin Qingting and Yang Tiezhu is getting better and better.

After getting to know the brother-in-law, Lin Qingting found that Yang Tiezhu was also a man with the heaven and earth in his heart. Although the two people walk different roads, but usually talk is quite chatty. Lin Qingting also began to appreciate this sister-in-law gradually, instead of being superficial as before. In fact, he still had some dislikes in his heart.

Nono also likes this uncle very much, because this uncle looks good-looking, the most important thing is that he is willing to play with him. Although his parents are willing to play with him, but after playing for a long time, there is nothing new. It is not easy for him to have more than one family to play with him. He feels very happy and pesters his uncle all day long.

Well, as soon as I got up early in the morning, nono was dressed by his father and came to see his uncle.

Lin Qingting has the habit of getting up early to practice martial arts, so when he came out, he had already got up and practiced sword and fist in the yard for a while. He was about to stop to wash his sweat.

Seeing his nephew's leg fluttering over, he held up nono.

"Little nono, why did you get up so early?"

For this nephew, Lin Qingting is also deeply distressed.

He is not only white, tender and lovely, but also smart. I can see from a young age that it is not the thing in the pool.

Well, most adults think that their children are smarter than others, and they are definitely not in the pool in the future.

Noro is now a little over two years old and can communicate with adults smoothly.

Of course, this kind of communication is only limited to the fact that he can fully express his own meaning. He can understand half of the simple speech of adults by listening carefully. When he does not listen carefully, he usually talks to the duck.

So Xiao Nuo didn't react at all to his uncle's saying that he had got up so early. Instead, he looked at Lin Qingting with glowing eyes and said, "uncle, what are you doing?"

Lin Qingting laughed, "uncle is practicing boxing."

"What is boxing?" The baby at this time is very curious about everything.

"Boxing?" Lin Qingting thought hard, and finally found a seemingly easy to understand saying, "exercise, grow strong."

"What's strong? My mother said, "if you have a good meal, you will be able to grow strong."

"If you are strong and strong, you will be as strong as your uncle."

Nono looked at his uncle with puzzled eyes. "But my mother said that he would be strong after that." He tilted his head and said, "uncle is not as strong as Dad, because you are not as big as Dad."

Lin Qingting is full of black lines, our commander, you are despised by nono, you know?

If you mention this big one, you will be far away.

After he can run, he often likes to play with big black Er Hei. Big black Er Hei knows human nature. Even if he pulls their tails and ears, he won't get angry or bite him. Sometimes he runs to let him chase after him. Little nono played with two big black dogs for a long time, but he could tell who was big black and who was second black, but he couldn't describe it.

Then Lin Qingwan told his son that Dahei was the bigger one and the second Hei was the smaller one, which means that Da Hei was bigger.

Originally, it was Tongyan Tongyu, and Noro remembered it. He began to classify the family. Ma's mother-in-law is bigger than her mother, her mother is bigger than nono, and nono is bigger than her younger brother. The biggest one in the family is Dad.

Now there is an uncle, but he still has no father.

Lin Qingting laughed a little after listening to his nephew, but he still understood his nephew's meaning, that is to say, he was not as strong as his sister-in-law.

He admitted that his brother-in-law was strong in the army, and he was only medium in size.

But solid doesn't mean good martial arts. He can't explain it clearly to his nephew.

Lin Qingting was also envious of his brother-in-law's physique and strength.

He knew that Yang Tiezhu had been a fireman for several years. He also knew that although he did not have any orthodox martial arts skills, he often went hunting in the mountains in the early years, and his skill and archery were good.

Lin Qingting is now in charge of the military power in Jingzhou. When he sees a good candidate for joining the army, he is very excited. More than once, he told Yang Tiezhu that he was suitable for mixing in the army. If he was trained well, his future would not be bad.

It's a pity that Yang Tiezhu's daughter-in-law is hot on the Kang. He is not interested in the military's future.

Yang Tiezhu thinks that this kind of life is very good now. He keeps his daughter-in-law and his children, makes money to support his family and raises his son. This idea is very simple, but in many people's eyes, it is a very unpromising performance.

It's just that Lin Qingting has been in touch with his sister's family for a long time, and then he understands that what his sister said women wanted, you men didn't understand.

Yes, it's good to have a good future, but my brother-in-law has no family background and no background. Even if he helps with one or two, it's very difficult to get ahead. Besides, my brother-in-law is not young. Twenty seven and eight are not suitable for military service. What's more, if you want to leave your wife, what can you do with your sister?Even if you have a future, you can earn rich clothes, good food, status and power, what can you do?

He has met many powerful and influential people. All the way around, everyone gives way. Wherever they go, they kneel down. But that is only good for men.

What about women? Lin Qingting thinks of those powerful men's homes. There are many wives and concubines, many common sons and daughters. They are intriguing and dirty inside.

In connection with his sister's experience, Lin Qingting never dares to look down upon women's ways. Sometimes women's way of attack is much more cruel than men's, also more yin, people can't defend.

These days, Lin Qingting and Lin Qingwan always sit together and talk. During this period, they talked a lot about their father, Liu, Lin Qinglan, etc.

Lin Qingwan said a lot of words. Although it was a kind of chat, it always made Lin Qingting feel like a cottage.

In the end, it's impossible to get angry twice and say no resentment or hatred.

To Lin Zhixian, who is called his father, is to blame his indifference, his inaction, and his disapproval. And Liu and Lin Qinglan are completely hate.

“…… In fact, she may not want to be like that. Maybe at the beginning, she is also a very simple girl. To put it bluntly, it is the edification of a small family. After marriage, men are not at ease, and a lot of common sons and daughters are watching, which makes people upset. People can't rub the sand in their eyes, and men can't rub it. Why do you think women can tolerate it? "

"Well, women's social status is low. In the Daxi Dynasty, it was reasonable for men to have three wives and four concubines, and women acquiesced in this phenomenon. Because it is this kind of education that they have received since childhood, and they have recognized this social phenomenon. "

“…… However, people are human beings, so they are not animals, because they (they) have all kinds of emotions. The women seem to recognize, but none of them can really admit their lives. Can you ask me, which woman can watch her husband and others love her sweetly and keep her empty house alone As a result, there is so much privacy in the backyard of a large family. The more wives and concubines, the more complicated the family situation is. There are always conflicts, intrigues and private means. "

Lin Qingting was shocked by his sister's words.

Although he did not know why his sister had such profound ideas, and some of the words he did not understand, he could understand the meaning of them.

It's true. He has to admit that many women in big families are cruel. Most of them are forced by men. Of course, they don't ignore the possibility of their own nature.

Although he never wanted to revenge Liu and Lin Qinglan, but the resentment was never eliminated.

It's unrealistic to retaliate. After all, it's his own mother and sister. If you want to revenge, his father will bear the brunt. These are his "family members.". Filial piety is always a ruler on people's head. Even if we don't want to admit it, sometimes we have to worry about it.

So after he found his sister, he saw that she was very well. Lin Qingting's plan was to stay away from that family, just as if they were not their own relatives and would not come back and forth again. Anyway, no one cared about himself.

But hate is not forgotten, and never forgive!

After listening to her sister's words, Lin Qingting still does not forgive Liu's Lin Qinglan, but her resentment is weak.

Just like he asked his sister, do you hate or hate her? What her sister said --

"without love, how can you hate. Hate is actually a very burdensome emotion, for those people, I just disdain, do not forgive, but do not hate. Hate them, for them, too much face. And hate can solve the problem? Since ancient times, family affairs are the most complicated things. It's not like dealing with the enemy. You can sweep the leaves without scruple. If we don't have a proper reason and an appropriate excuse to deal with our family members, we will certainly restrict ourselves to the moral shackles. Even if we don't care, we can't live in the world without caring about other people's eyes and secular torture. Since it is not easy to solve it, why should we let ourselves hate to live so tired? "

He still remembered his sister's expression at that time. After she said these words, she gave a pretty smile and said, "do you think they are very happy now? Lin's aunt and concubine have never been less, but they have come and gone less? These are enough to worry Liu. As for Lin Qinglan, although we don't know how she's going at this time, we can imagine how good she will be in the future. We don't need to hate, we just need to look at them from afar and see their unhappiness... "

Yes, my sister is right. It's too shameful to hate them. They just need to look at them from afar.

But their brother and sister are very happy, although the younger sister's life is not luxurious enough, but can't stand the man's consideration, the baby is lovely, the heart is comfortable.

And he, although alone, but put down the hatred of him, the heart is much more comfortable.

In the future, who can know, who is inferior to whom?

One day, he will stand high, overlooking those who once despised him. At that time, there is no need to do anything, enough for those who have a ghost in their hearts to be scared and can't sleep at night.Lin Qingting left on the fifth day of junior high school and rushed to his own future and future. His family sent him after him.

It's just that when he left this time, he would be more happy because he knew that he was not alone. He had his family

This word, countless times let Lin Qingting this hot blooded man secretly tears.

He didn't know what family was when he was a child. When he was a child, the environment at home was distorted and complicated. In his mind, his aunt and sister were family members, and nothing else was. After his aunt left, the family left him and his sister. After several ups and downs, now he and his sister's family get together. At this time, the family members are not in the cold room. They are no longer brothers and sisters. They have to be separated from the servant girls. But the concrete image is completely presented in his mind. His family is a family who can eat together freely. It is the warmth of heart and lung

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