I suddenly thought, how does Zhou Zhongxin seem to pay so much attention to me today? Is it the sun coming out of the west?

I connected Zhou Zhongxin's illogical behavior with director Qi, and the answer was quite easy to know.

Because I know that Zhou Zhongxin once worked as a civil servant for director Qi in the security department, and the relationship between them was quite harmonious. After Zhou Zhongxin was transferred to the fourth brigade as director, director Qi also visited the hostel many times to find Zhou Zhongxin.

What does this mean?

means that Zhou Zhongxin should be the important eye of Qi director in the guest house. The reason why he came to me today is probably the direction of the director. His purpose is to explore the words and see if I really had a love crisis from the dream.

In this way, things seem more reasonable and many questions can be solved.

It's just that I really can't think of it. Is it possible for a chief security officer of a university to do this?

It's really hard work!

once you're in private, you should persecute and control others over and over again. To this day, his goal has been achieved. So what else does he want to do next?

In fact, the development of the situation is far beyond my imagination.

The human accidents around me are changing rapidly. Including by dream, including some of my colleagues who have worked with me, have changed dramatically.

And these changes are exactly what I don't want to see.

It's the third day I've been handed out to the hostel, but the result of my treatment hasn't come down yet.

I was in a panic all day long, dizzy by the continuous disaster. I was looking forward to the dawn and the end of darkness. But these can not be changed by Zhao long alone.

I can only wait silently, waiting for the opportunity, waiting for the arrangement of the superior.

More importantly, I have to wait for the dream to change my mind. Will she change her mind?

……

Wait, wait, wait, wait until this day, I finally ushered in a ray of unexpected dawn

Maybe it's the way of heaven, after a few days of dark experience, a glimmer of dawn finally came into my mind.

Song Sichun's family, a cadre of Ximen garrison, came to the team and stayed in the hostel. Song Sichun and I had two drinks in the small restaurant in front of the hostel while playing with their families.

The more you drink, the more you speculate. Song Sichun's flattery comes up again. He keeps toasting and flattering me from east to west. Although it's nice to be praised, I always feel bored.

Really, sometimes you have to believe that flattery is a kind of learning. If you have to go back to the ancestor of flattery, I think it should be the army. Many people think that the society is a place where the fish and the Dragon mix together, and it is difficult to survive. But in fact, the army should be better than the society. If you want to grow and progress in the army, it is not enough to rely on practical work alone. You have to be able to welcome the leaders, so as to gain the trust of the leaders; you have to be able to welcome the comrades in arms, so as to gain more prestige from the masses. This short word "flattery" contains too much technology. You have to grasp the timing, occasion, degree and specification of flattery. For different leaders, the rhetoric and methods of flattery must be different.

And this song Sichun, it is estimated that he has obtained the first true biography of flattering the king of heaven and Wang in the history. He talks incessantly and flatters people appropriately, which will not make people feel over heated or false. Just like the original harmony and adults, although he was greedy and perverted, he flattered Emperor Qianlong so comfortably that Emperor Qianlong knew that he was flattering himself and perfunctory, but still gave him a heavy responsibility. Why is that? It is because he can make Qianlong flattered and happy when he is depressed, happy when he is sad, and happy when he is tired. Therefore, in the eyes of Qianlong, harmony is a rare treasure, more than billions of gold and silver.

But then again, it's not that he flattered all the leaders and was killed after Jiaqing succeeded?

This song Sichun is the same, because the newly promoted squadron leader has the style of Jiaqing emperor and doesn't like the flattery of his subordinates, but this is the strength of song Sichun. Half of the growth and progress of song Sichun depends on the relationship with the leader. Song Sichun met such a leader. All the flattering Kung Fu could not be exerted, so his position in the squadron was declining. Every year, he lost his hand in the evaluation of merit and other awards.

When it comes to the behavior of flattering leaders in the army, it's not really evil or good. I think it's due to human nature. Proper flattery is also elegant. In the 21st century, a soldier who really fights and works is not a good soldier, nor will he be recognized as a good soldier. Therefore, in addition to doing a good job, more communication skills with leaders can be invincible in the increasingly fierce competition and competition of the army.

Song Sichun talks about his experience of being neglected in the squadron, which is quite similar to my recent situation.

As the saying goes, wine is worth a thousand cups to a bosom friend. If two "worriers" meet, wine in the mouth is no longer wine, the identity of wine, will be more water than water.

But even if we don't take the bad wine as a poison, it is also the thing that pierces the intestines after all. If we drink too much, we will get drunk.

My liquor is OK, but the liquor in the fourth spring of Song Dynasty is not worth complimenting. After a few cups of liquor, he began to drift when he spoke.

Song Sichun's eyes are dim and he says: "Secretary Zhao, to be honest, you are the most admired, most compassionate leader I have ever met." Song Sichun gave a fight and then said, "how can you say it? Although you are in an important position, you are very kind. Isn't old sun an example? How did you help him kindly? Instead, you got a lot of trouble. Besides, your help to the following stationed squadrons, let's say the second squadron. To be honest with Secretary Zhao, before that, in fact, I had a little talk with staff Liu and staff Huang. What's the point... " Song Sichun said more and more incoherent.

I wanted to persuade him to drink less, but on the other hand, song Sichun is really pitiful. In fact, his work is not bad, that is, he has set up a middle captain who is particularly disgusted with flattery, which has greatly damaged his image. Many leaders blindly think that cadres who like to flatter and flatter are not good cadres. In fact, I have my own views on this. As for the flattery of leaders, I think it is the product of the development of the times and also the inevitable trend. Because the officers and soldiers who are also on the starting line, who can take another step forward is undoubtedly the key role of the superior leaders. If the superior leaders say a word, you may be promoted, or you may never make it again. Therefore, in order to grow and progress, no matter in the army or in the local area, subordinates have tried to make good relations with their superiors in various ways, and this flattery has become an effective weapon, which is used by more and more people.

To a certain extent, we can't blindly satirize those vulnerable groups who like flattery. In many cases, it's also an instinct to make a living and survive!

therefore, I don't hate song Sichun, but I hope he can make a difference in the grass-roots squadron.

At this time, his emotions and dissatisfaction are invisible in his face, and his language is full of venting and helplessness. When he mentioned me, he was full of excitement and heroism. From his expression, I saw that his respect for me was from the bottom of his heart, not in flattery. After all, now I have fallen to this level. Many of my former colleagues who were in awe of my orders and orders have begun to turn their eyes at me. Song Sichun, as always, has been open-minded and open-minded with me. Just because of this, it proves that song Sichun is not a snob. His flattery is one of the survival and progress of the army An instinctive response.

Song Sichun then said: "I used to ask staff Huang and staff Liu to help me. That's the They just promised verbally that they would have a good time taking photos with the leaders. The happiest thing was Liu staff. At that time, I invited him to drink two drinks. As a result, there was no news! Until I found Secretary Zhao you, and told you about it, Secretary Zhao agreed directly. However, to be honest, I was also holding the idea of trying. Well, I didn't expect that Secretary Zhao would do it for me in a few days. At last, the officers and soldiers of our second middle school team took photos with chief C. through this matter, I think you do things in a proper way, unlike some people who just say it but don't practice it, which makes people look forward to it, but don't expect the sun to come out... " Song Sichun once said, while holding his left hand in the air, although some incoherent, but the expression is quite sincere.

I can hear that song Sichun is not flattering me, but thanks from the bottom of his heart.

So I took the opportunity to ask, "then why didn't you come to me directly?"

Song Sichun scratched his head and said with a smile, "how dare you. You are the Secretary of the guard, the head of chief C's guard. I was afraid you wouldn't beat me. "

I blushed for a moment, and I dare to say that song Sichun even said such local words. But this kind of vernacular is comfortable to listen to, because of simplicity, because of reality.

Song Sichun then said, "really brother Zhao, it's my blessing to meet you." Song Sichun said that when he was enjoying himself, he suddenly grasped my hand and would not let it go.

I quickly smiled and said, "don't mention, I should call you brother. You are six or seven years older than me. When I was a new recruit, you were already a cadre. "

Song Sichun smiled awkwardly and said, "yes, right. No matter who is the elder brother, shall we have a relationship? "

I said, "OK, pretty good. You are a real person, too. I've got your brother. "

Song Sichun smiled contentedly and said, "if there is a brother, I will be satisfied." Song Sichun filled up another glass of wine and said, "brother Zhao Oh, no, brother Zhao, come here and have a drink with brother song. We are serious brothers. "

"I advised:" go to the old song, don't drink, see your tongue is not straight

Song Sichun frowned and said, "drink. Have to drink. You have to drink. Today, I went out of my way - "

I quickly pressed his glass and said:" don't go out of my way, a whole soldier of the district team