Chapter 546

A man has a low requirement for his wife, that is, he can be strict with his wife at home, and he can be kneeling at the head of the bed (cabinet), but in front of outsiders, his wife should show respect for him. All men have this kind of face saving vanity. The reason is simple: if a man is known to be unable to hold his head up at home, he is only qualified to be a slave outside. Men often frown and have a headache when dealing with the roaring women, but for the sake of face and getting rid of embarrassment, men will say, "good men don't fight with women, men don't see women in the same way." Men often lose things, but for the sake of face, they are not ridiculed as "muddleheaded". Instead, he will say, "it doesn't matter. The old ones don't go and the new ones don't come."

There are many timid men, but these timid men are different when they are in love. In order to save face, they will sacrifice their lives. No wonder people often say, "men are the bravest when they are in love." In order to buy money, the most stingy men often say that they are not short of money, and it is no wonder that they are not short of money Men love face. When they are tired, they should be very relaxed. When they are weak, they should be strong. When they are hard to protect themselves, they should also show that they can protect others. When they are helpless, they should also show endless useful methods. Men love face, they dare not be ecstatic when they succeed, they dare not sigh when they fail, they dare not cry when they are sad, they dare not ask for help when they are at a loss

Therefore, as a woman, we must take this into full consideration. When considering a man's face, we should not say sympathy, but take care of it. A man should not only take care of his own face, but also his family. The society also has the fixed pattern, certainly also takes into account the man's face.

"Wear it. You've bought it." Qin Feng puts the receipt into Lin Xuemei's hand. "Take this away. If there's anything inappropriate, you can come and find her"

"how can you..." Lin Xuemei looks at the waiter behind her. "It's too expensive"

"as long as you like it," she whispered, "as long as you like, I can buy you anything expensive"

although Qin Feng's words are deceptive, Lin Xuemei is still a little drunk, because this sentence is too destructive to women 。

With boundless happiness, Lin Xuemei put Qin Feng's arm on her arm, but she soon released it again. Because of her consideration of influence, she could not help it. Who could make herself a public figure at all!

The evening meeting is arranged in a secluded farmyard. Nowadays, the boss doesn't like to publicize it. Especially in this kind of wine shop, the more hidden the better.

Wine is a good wine, and the dishes are planted by the shopkeeper himself in his acre, which also caters to the current boss's taste of green and pollution-free.

"Is everything on track?" In such a private occasion, Xiao Yuanshan tried to put down his stature. However, the breath of a superior person still came out unconsciously. There was no way. People who had been in high positions for a long time were like this. Even if they wanted to hide it, they couldn't hide it.

"Thank you for your concern. Everything is OK. We are waiting for the road to be built in spring." Qin Feng respectfully adds wine to Xiao Yuanshan.

"Well, I've always been thinking about you. Next year's plan has your place, and it will directly solve the situation in Lanshan county." Xiao Yuanshan knows what Qin Feng said and he also knows his purpose. In any case, this kind of thing is to do things that are favorable to the flow, not to give away for nothing, and this is what Lin Wanjiang has explained, and he can't do it himself Has the final say, but Xiao Yuanshan also needs the following attitude. The boss wants to be supported by the people below. He hopes to be pursued by the following people. This is what the boss will give you. He will do it for you. But when he does it, he can do it. Three days and five days are done for you. He is also in charge of him. You can't go to the higher boss for this time, can't you?

It is precisely because of this, Qin Feng will let Lin Xuemei take herself to find a Xiao Yuanshan alone, in order to make the other party think about their own things, so that the other party can transfer their own money as soon as possible.

"You haven't done what I told you last time, have you?" With Lin Xuemei in, Xiao Yuanshan wants to sell a lot of people.

"Well, that I I failed you. "Qin Feng bowed his head in shame. At that time, Xiao Yuanshan gave himself an excellent idea, but he failed to grasp it well. This is really a bit of a pity for others.

"The past is over. It can be done at the beginning of the next spring, but the effect may not be so obvious. I will arrange a deputy boss to go with you, and you will..." Xiao Yuanshan can be said to be a man to be a family this time. He told Qin Feng many details in detail. For a man who has worked in a national Ministry, the way in it is clear. However, Xiao Yuanshan will never disclose everything completely. After all, he has to leave something behind for himself. If the people below can do everything quickly What else does he have to do with his big boss when he's done? Isn't he a dispensable person? Therefore, the boss generally likes to stay behind in handling affairs. Generally, the subordinates will think of him when they feel that they can't.

At present, Xiao Yuanshan is also like this. Although he has told Qin Feng all the steps and precautions, he still retains some things that only he can do.During the dinner, Xiao Yuanshan tried hard to communicate with Lin Xuemei, but Lin Xuemei was always a simple response from the beginning to the end. Everything would not be too deep, and he would always lead the words to Qin Feng. This made Xiao Yuanshan depressed and helpless. He could only meet Qin Feng's requirements as much as possible, and finally saw that he wanted to solve his own problems Hope, Xiao Yuanshan let his mobile phone ring. After receiving the call, Xiao Yuanshan got up and left.

"Eat something quickly, just now you only care about drinking." after Xiao Yuanshan left, Lin Xuemei lovingly said to Qin Feng.

"No way, it's like this on the table. The boss eats vegetables and the subordinates drink," Qin Feng puts a mouthful of vegetables into his mouth and says sarcastically, "that's a good saying. You can drink half a kilogram and eight taels. This kind of staff should be trained to drink eight Liang and half a kilogram. Such staff should be careful. They can drink liquor and beer. The staff should be transferred and can drink beer and drink A staff member who can't drink will have no future. If he drinks nine Liang, he will focus on training; if he drinks only, the boss will not; if he can drink, he will be Secretary of the boss; if he drinks, his position will be difficult to protect; if he drinks too little, it will be hard to find talents; if he runs half way, he will be promoted early; if he leads the whole process, he will be a future boss. "

" don't listen to that, it's all fabricated by others, but it's also true We can't belittle this. Having dinner with the boss is not only a meal, but also a "bureau". There is a lot of learning in what to say and what to do. If you are right in saying and doing the right thing, you may make a great progress; otherwise, you may fall into a trap and not turn over. Dining is a social way from ancient times to the present. Having a meal and chatting with others can convey the message of "not seeing the outside world" to each other. If we don't say what we should do in advance, we should eat first. In this way, we will have no sense of snobbishness. If we don't drink first, we will not lose face. But in the face of different groups of people, what to say and what to do at dinner is also particular. Especially when the boss is involved in the dinner party, you should be extra energetic. After all, the boss is the one who has the decision on your future and destiny.

Dinner is sometimes an important occasion for the boss to investigate the loyalty and ability of subordinates. On the wine table, ordinary people must pay attention to what they say, and be careful to run into minefields. Otherwise, it is very likely that the boss will have a bad opinion on you, and even bring trouble to personal work and development in the future.

It is said that the former boss of the supervision department spoke at the dinner party very mysterious, often with words in it. There is a young man in the office below who has no heart. He usually speaks frankly. At a new year's party, the boss invited them to dinner. During the dinner, the boss said sincerely that he could tell him what he wanted and what he wanted. Unexpectedly, before anyone else opened his mouth, the young man began to pour out bitterness. At that time, the boss didn't say anything, and he always listened with a smile, but later he suppressed the man He has the qualification of deputy general manager of the office, but he has not been able to mention it when the boss is in. A while ago, I just solved this matter. At that time, I saw the man kneeling for me. Well, to have dinner with the boss, first of all, you have to have a handle on your mouth. If you don't want to say something, you have to hold it back in your stomach. Otherwise, it will come out of your mouth. Lin Xuemei played with the cup in her hand and began to instill the rules of the circle to Qin Feng.

"I know that" Qin Feng put a prawn into his mouth. "In a dinner party, we should learn to watch what we say and act according to the circumstances. If we say it well," one sentence is worth ten thousand words ". It will come and will be used by the boss in the future. According to my uncle, vice president Shen Jian was like this at that time. Although he had no special background, he was highly appreciated by his boss. When we eat with the boss, others are busy drinking and eating, but his eyes are always staring at the boss's every move. The boss lit a cigarette, he would quickly hand over the ashtray, the boss wanted to toast, he quickly went to add wine. In addition, he would listen attentively when the boss made an "important speech", with a knowing smile from time to time, and a few flattering remarks at the right time. It is because of this that he can move from a real grassroots to a position at the department level. Otherwise, he may be a staff member for life. "

"Well, this is the characteristics of our country." Lin Xuemei inadvertently looked at the watch on her wrist. Qin Feng looked at this action, and immediately accelerated the speed of eating. At present, she picked up a few mouthfuls of rice and put down her chopsticks.

"Sister Lin, let's go!" When talking, Qin Feng's hand has been unconsciously

"Pay attention! What occasion is this? " Lin Xuemei hit Qin Feng.

"Hey hey, who cares about this?"

"Lie down" pressed Qin Feng to the bed and lay flat. Lin Xuemei said gently, "relax, close your eyes."

"Where did you learn massage?" Qin Feng asked with a smile.

"Close your eyes" Lin Xuemei reaches out and closes Qin Feng's eyes.

Close your eyes and enjoy it.