Chapter 178： Chen Ping's theory

After a long time of contact, their perception of these three boys is pretty good.

But the most surprising thing is that the three girls in Gao Leyao's dormitory and the three boys in Chen Ping's dormitory have the most frequent contact with Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman.

For this matter, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao were also puzzled.

The three of them each chose a goal of their own, and there was not much conflict.

Liu Xiaoman and the three girls, although they are not as good as Gao Leyao and Lin Yuwei in appearance, they can definitely be regarded as beautiful women.

If they could really catch up to their respective goals, Xiao Jingxuan and the three would be able to balance them.

What made Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao couldn't figure out anyway was that Li Tianhai was a little fat man. The start seems to be the fastest.

In recent times, the contact between Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman has become closer, and they send each other text messages for half a day almost every night, and even make occasional calls.

On the contrary, it is Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao, who are not so closely connected with the other two girls.

For this phenomenon, Chen Ping was also extremely speechless. He also couldn't figure out why this happened?

Chen Ping's emotional intelligence can only be regarded as normal, not the kind of people with high emotional intelligence. It is precisely because of this that Chen Ping has almost never fallen in love in his previous life.

It was also after rebirth that Lin Yuwei became a girlfriend. Chen Ping doesn't know much about the relationship between men and women.

Therefore, I can't figure out why the relationship between Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman is going faster than Xiao Jingxuan and the two of them.

After all, Li Tianhai's own conditions were still slightly worse than those of Xiao Jingxuan and the others.

Especially in terms of appearance, although Li Tianhai is not ugly, his figure is a bit bloated after all. Compared to Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao, it was still a bit worse.

But he happened to be able to fight him and Liu Xiaoman's relationship so fiercely at the fastest speed, which really makes people wonder.

Even looking at this trend, it won't take long for Liu Xiaoman to become Li Tianhai's girlfriend.

For the roommate about to find a girlfriend, Chen Ping is naturally happy to see it happen.

When occasionally returning to the dormitory, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao talked about it to Chen Ping. Although they looked indignant, Chen Ping could also see that the two of them were also heartfelt blessings to Li Tianhai.

However, after returning to the dormitory that day, Chen Ping discovered that Li Tianhai, the little fat man who used to smile heartlessly every day, was sitting on his bed with a sad face, not knowing what he was thinking.

Zhou Haomiao and Xiao Jingxuan were not in the dormitory. Chen Ping could only come to Li Tianhai and sit down, and then softly asked, "Tianhai, what happened? Tell me, and see if I can help. You solve it?"

Li Tianhai looked up at Chen Ping, then sighed softly, smiled helplessly, and said softly: "It's nothing, but I'm worried about how to confess to Xiaoman..."

Chen Ping's eyes lighted slightly when he heard this, and then softly asked in surprise, "The relationship between the two of you has progressed so fast? Is it time to confess now?"

Li Tianhai nodded lightly, and after hesitating for a moment, a somewhat triumphant expression appeared on his face, and he smiled softly and said, "That's natural. Don't look at me not as good as the three of you. The means of chasing girls, at least Xiao Jingxuan and the two of them absolutely can't compare with me!"

Chen Ping also raised his brows lightly, glanced at the smug little fat man with a smile, and then asked casually: "Then you are telling me, what do you have for chasing girls? Also teach My two tricks?"

Li Tianhai rolled his eyes immediately, glanced at Chen Ping angeredly, and said helplessly, "Do you still have to learn from me? You already have a sister-in-law. Is it possible that you want to step on two boats? Chen Ping, I can tell you, if you really do this, I will have to doubt your character! Although we are in the same dormitory, if your character is not good, no matter what your identity, we Friends of you don’t have to do it!"

Chen Ping also suddenly gave a bitter smile, then slapped Li Tianhai slapped, and said in a soft voice, "What are you talking about? I just want to help you advise you, if I don't need it, I don't care."

With that, Chen Ping was about to stand up.

When Li Tianhai heard this, he hurriedly grabbed Chen Ping's arm, and then said with a bitter smile, "Am I just kidding? Don't worry!"

Chen Ping sat down a little funny, and then said in a soft voice, "Okay, if you have any questions, you can tell me. Although I am not very good at chasing girls, I can at least help you advise. , See if you have insufficient preparation."

Li Tianhai nodded immediately. In Li Tianhai's opinion, Chen Ping could catch up with Lin Yuwei. The method of picking up girls is naturally unquestionable. If Chen Ping is to help the staff, the probability that he can catch up with Liu Xiaoman will be great. Promote.

This is also the reason why Li Tianhai and Xiao Jingxuan stayed together for a long time, but did not discuss this matter with them.

After all, in Li Tianhai's opinion, although Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao looked more handsome than themselves, their emotional intelligence was not enough.

Especially chasing girls is not as good as oneself, and it is useless to discuss with them.

On the contrary, it is Chen Ping, with Lin Yuwei's beautiful girlfriend, at least in terms of chasing girls, Chen Ping should still have a hand.

Li Tianhai also directly expressed his concerns: "The relationship between Xiaoman and I have been pretty good recently, and we have been in contact almost every day, but I really can't figure out whether she likes me or not. After all, we two When we chatted, we were all from the north to the south, and I have never talked about emotional issues, so now I am really not sure."

"If I confess my confession to Liu Xiaoman, can she accept me? If I can't accept it, wouldn't I have no chance at all? Even friends can't even do it!"

Chen Ping suddenly rolled his eyes and said without hesitation: "What do you think so much about? I don't know the relationship between you and Liu Xiaoman, but I can probably see some of it."

"I can give you an analysis of the current status of the relationship between the two of you. You can think about it yourself."

"The relationship between you two is pretty good now, at least you can be regarded as good friends. Even if you two did not talk about relationship issues during the chat, at least she already has a certain understanding of you. And after she got to know you, she did not alienate you because of this, indicating that she still recognizes you as a person. This is already a prerequisite for developing relationships."

"And since the relationship between the two of you has reached this point, if you don’t confess, you will always be friends. It is impossible to take a step forward. Is it possible that you still expect Liu Xiaoman to take the initiative to you Can't confess?"

Li Tianhai shook his head with a wry smile. He naturally didn't have this expectation. Let a girl take the initiative to confess to him. This probability is too low and too low.

Then Chen Ping continued to speak softly: "After you confessed to her, there are only two possibilities. If the confession is successful, Liu Xiaoman is naturally your girlfriend. Of course, there is no need to say more."

"But if the confession fails, it does not mean that you have no chance. After all, you two are not just pure friends, but also classmates. You can't see you with your heads down. Even if she rejects you, you will inevitably have some other things. Contact with each other."

"Even after she refuses you, you can continue to work hard. Maybe she will have a longer contact with you, and she will have more affection for you. When she confesses her next time, she might succeed."

"Even if the relationship between the two of you is alienated by this, this is not necessarily a bad thing."

"It hasn’t been three months since school started, and you and Liu Xiaoman haven’t known each other for a long time. The feelings that I have invested in her are not too deep. Although I like her, it is far from unforgettable. Love, so even if you withdraw now, it is not too much harm to you."

"Even if she rejects you, and the relationship between the two of you is completely alienated, you only need a short time to adjust your state, and you won't be hurt too much."

"But if you continue to hesitate, the longer the time, the deeper your feelings for Liu Xiaoman will be. If you are rejected by her then, it will hit you too much!"

Hearing Chen Ping's words, Li Tianhai was completely lost in thought.

I have to say that what Chen Ping said is somewhat reasonable and realistic.

Although it sounds a bit unsatisfactory, it seems to be in terms of feelings and you have to care about your own investment, but in fact, this is the most sensible approach.

As Chen Ping said, the contact time is too long and the feelings invested are too much. Once rejected by the other party, it is very likely to suffer huge harm.

It is better to start confessing immediately after confirming that you like each other after a period of contact.

In this way, can also give both parties a chance to truly contact as lovers. It is also the wisest way to confirm whether the two parties can really go to the end before both parties have invested too much in their feelings. , Will not cause excessive harm to both parties.

Although Chen Ping had never been in love in his previous life, his life experience was much more abundant than that of ordinary people. Although Chen Ping had not personally experienced emotional matters in his previous life, he had seen too many examples.

In Chen Ping's view, this approach is the most correct.

Of course, this is only Chen Ping's view alone, and it does not mean that such a view is necessarily correct.

Chen Ping in his previous life has seen many such examples.

Some lovers begin to fall in love when they know each other for a month or two, and contact each other as real lovers. In this way, they will have a deeper understanding of each other and will be able to know whether the other person is the most suitable person for them. .

And because the time of acquaintance is not too long, even if they start to fall in love, the two will not pay a substantial price.