Chapter 374

"What else? I think everyone's life is different. Do you want to restrain them and let them develop as you want? " I asked suspiciously.

"No, I just hope to help them find their own goals and preferences. I just play a role of assistance and guidance. As for what they want to develop, it depends on their preferences." Ling Mo Fan said, "after all, that's their life, right?"

"So it is." I nodded and said, "how do you know so much about education?"

"I've been reading about this since a long time ago." Ling Mo Fan said, "because of myself So I hope that my children can grow up carefree, healthy and happy in the future. "

I silently, reached out to embrace him: "but you also grow very well, I have never seen a better person than you grow up."

"Maybe it's also because of people's personality and environmental factors." Ling Mo fan smiles, reaches out his hand and rubs my hair, "it's all over, isn't it? In order to avoid our tragedy repeating itself in children, we must play the role of parents

I nodded and hugged him more tightly: "you are really a very good father."

When I think about what Ling Mo Fan said and what he did, I feel deeply.

He is seriously responsible for these four children.

But it's not the type that just gives them love and doesn't care about anything. It's not the traditional sense that parents decide what to let their children learn. They want their children to find their own preferences and find their own strengths, so that they can learn step by step.

Xiaochen is a particularly good example.

"My brother has gone to the art gallery. Shall we go to see the children's song and dance drama?" Ling Mofan bent down and said to the three children, "after watching the song and dance drama, let's play something else."

The three children are naturally happy.

We took three children to the theatre.

Xiao Shuang has seen it, but she has no interest in song and dance drama, just the degree of appreciation. Dabao and Xiaobao have never seen song and dance drama.

The theater slowly opened, and the lovely little actors appeared on the stage.

When the heroine stood still, opened her mouth and sang a clear song, my Yu Guang saw Xiaobao sit up straight.

Oops.

Xiaobao is always calm. It's the first time to see her so interested in a thing.

It seems that Dabao and Xiaobao are all like this, especially calm. Xiaoshuang is the only one at home, full of vitality, spreading sunshine and joy everywhere.

Tut How can these three children be so like Ling Mofan?

In the following time, I watched the musical and watched Xiaobao distractedly.

Xiaobao is very cute, and even dances with little actors in some places.

I'm interested in dancing.

After the opera, I grabbed Ling Mo fan and asked, "did you notice Xiao Bao just now?"

"Well, I see." Ling Mo fan nodded, "Xiao Bao likes music."

"Shall we..." I made a sign with my eyes.

"Don't worry, how can you be sure that it's her whim or that she really has a desire to keep learning for a long time?" Ling Mo fan touched my head, "we need to observe again."

All right, you're right about everything.

I shrugged, took his arm and took the three children forward.

After a few days in a row, every day Xiaochen still went to the art museum, and we took our three children to see all kinds of artistic performances.

Until one night, when he was about to go to bed, Xiao Bao suddenly knocked on our bedroom door, climbed onto our bed and squeezed in the middle of us.

"What's the matter, Xiao Bao?" I touched her face and asked, "can't you sleep?"

"No, mom." Xiao Bao shakes his head and stops talking.

Ling Mo fan and I quietly wait for her to speak, and we don't urge her.

"Mom That Can I be like my second brother? " Xiao Bao's eyes wandered back and forth, and finally summoned up the courage to ask.

"What is like the second brother?" I pretended I didn't understand, but I already knew what Xiaobao wanted to say.

"The second brother has something he likes to do. I also want to..." Xiao Bao pursed his lips and puffed up his courage.

"What do you want to do?" Ling Mo fan asked after her.

"I think Learn music. " Xiaobao is a little shy. "There are many things to learn, but I envy those children who stand on the stage and shine. "

"For example?" Ling Mo fan continued to ask.

"Violin, vocal music, dance..." Xiao Bao counted out one by one, and then looked at me awkwardly.

"Not on a whim?" Ling Mo fan picked his eyebrows."So much at once. You choose these, but they all need a long and boring practice. Those children who stand on the stage and shine are those who shed countless tears and sweat under the stage and can only stand up after repeating for a long time. "

"You haven't suffered at all, are you sure?"

Xiaobao obviously hesitated. In fact, she didn't quite understand what Ling Mo Fan said, but she knew that her father was telling her that it was not so easy to learn these things.

She thought for a while, and then whispered, "but, mom and Dad, I like it. I want to have a try."

With that, she blinked and looked at us.

"Well, then try it." Ling Mofan nodded and touched her hair. "I hope you can stick to it. You know, there is no shortcut to anything. You have to climb the top of the mountain step by step by yourself. "

"When you are tired, I hope you can remember what I said. There are very few people climbing the top of the mountain. Why can't that person be you?"

Xiaobao nodded firmly, took a deep breath and said good night to us: "good night, mom and Dad, I'll go to bed first."

Then he gave us a goodnight kiss.

When Xiao Bao closed the door and went out, I turned over and rolled into Ling Mo fan's arms and sighed with relief: "she finally put it forward. It's bad for me these days."

"Why are you more anxious than she is." Ling Mo Fan said with a smile, "really."

"But why do you pour cold water on Xiaobao?" I pushed him, raised my head and asked, "when Xiaochen said that, someone didn't have so many words."

"Xiaochen's experience is different from Xiaobao's, and her personality is different. I'm just afraid Xiaobao will give up easily, so I wake her up." Ling Mo Fan said.

"What if Xiaobao doesn't stick to it?" I asked, "great educator, let me see what you can do."

"She'll hold on." Ling Mo fan's eyes are full of ambition, "I believe her. Of course, I have a way to treat her, if she is the kind of person who gives up easily

"Well, I believe you can educate our children well." I rubbed against his chest and closed my eyes contentedly.

"Well, wife, are you implying me?" Ling Mo fan's voice is a little hoarse.

"What?" I looked up to see him, and he stopped me in a hurry.

This man! Again!

The next day, when I was sitting at the dinner table with everyone in an unnatural posture, Xiaochen saw me and said, "Mom, your waist is uncomfortable again?"

The water I just drank almost didn't come out.

How can the child have such a good memory? Remember that?!

I glare at Ling Mo fan, but Ling Mo fan just smiles and doesn't speak.

I can only ease the mood to Xiaochen way: "nothing, just pull it, don't worry about mother."

Today's schedule is still Xiaochen going to the art museum, we take three children, first go to the teacher to arrange courses for Xiaobao, and then take the other two children to play.

It's said to be a tourist, but I feel like I'm going to settle down in this city.

I asked Ling Mo fan, but he said with a smile: "after a while, he will leave. Our original intention is to travel, just to explore their interests and hobbies

So it is.

"But Xiaobao has already begun to learn. What should I do?" I frown.

"I have talked about that teacher for a long time. As long as the salary is in place, they will certainly teach well. Of course, they can even give up some things." Ling Mo fan winked at me.

OK, is that the power of capital? I'm convinced.

After a while in this country, we set off for another country.

Xiao Shuang likes acting, so we often take her to the theater to see other people's performances, or to see movies in other countries.

She is also really hard-working, watching movies and plays will hold a notebook to record what.

Dabao, this child is different from other children.

He is not very interested in other things, but likes to watch Ling Mofan's office.

When I went to deliver tea to Ling Mofan that day, I saw Dabao sitting next to him, listening to his video conference with relish.

After the meeting, I asked, "Dabao, can you understand what Dad is saying?"

"I can understand a little bit." Dabao nodded, "I think Dad is so powerful."

"Yes? Do you want to be like dad? " I smile and touch his head.

"Yes." After a pause, he nodded firmly and said, "I want to be as powerful as my father."

"Then you study with your father and work hard." I said, "if you don't understand anything, ask dad more."

"Well, I will." Dabao replied, "what Dad told me is very simple. I can understand it."I propped my chin to see Ling Mo fan: "yes, I can harvest a little fan brother quietly."

"I'm flattered." Ling Mo fan bent his eyes and said, "if you are interested, I can teach you."

"No, teacher Ling's one-on-one tutoring efficiency is relatively high." I wave my hand.

"That's fine. You're on the night shift, and I'll coach you." Ling Mo fan raised his eyes and looked at me with curved eyebrows. He also deliberately accentuated the pronunciation of "evening shift" and "guidance".

My back was cold and my waist was sore.