Chapter 794： The inferiority of the strong, the self-confidence of the weak

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The higher his career climbs, the more Su Dong feels that he has fewer and fewer friends around him.

For example, Aimar has not been in contact for a long time.

Not only with Su Dong, but also with Messi.

It was a very strange and special feeling, in the words of David Silva, Aimar felt a little embarrassed.

Because when he made friends, his status in European football was higher than that of Su Dong, and Messi was far incomparable to him. He was just a little fan who might need his help at any time.

But gradually, Aimar discovered that not only Su Dong surpassed him, but Messi also surpassed him, which made him uncomfortable, and he didn't know how to continue to get along with them.

There are many such cases, not only in Su Dong, but also in Messi, but also in everyone.

Whether proactive or passive, Su and Dong’s friends are gradually decreasing, especially those teammates who used to fight side by side, some have retired, some even started to be head coaches, and most of them are no longer in contact.

So every time when Su Dong met his teammates, he would have a very special kind of intimacy.

But he will not go to the close, but he will take the initiative to walk over and tell them that he hasn't seen him for a long time. After the game is over, he walks over and talks to them, saying something about it.

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"You look more confident than before!" Mohamed Sissoko praised convincingly.

"Really?" Su Dong asked with a smile, but quickly shook his head, "Actually, I'm still the same as before, a little inferior."

"How is it possible?" Mohamed Sissoko was surprised.

Su Dong's low self-esteem?

If this is said, who will believe it?

People with low self-esteem, were able to pick three and pass the ball just now?

If Su Dong was a little inferior when he was in Valencia back then, Sissoko still believes, is this possible now?

"Perhaps we have different definitions of inferiority complex." Su Dong smiled.

Maybe it's because of an old friend, or maybe it's because Sissoko has seen everything when Su Dong first became famous in Valencia, so he was willing to say something.

"Perhaps you think that low self-esteem is shameful, you don't have self-confidence in anything, you feel that you are inferior to others, you are only committed to doing things, and it is easy to be looked down upon."

Sissoko showed a black question mark face, didn't he?

"I feel that always thinking that I am not doing well enough is actually a kind of inferiority complex."

Sissoko was silent for a moment, what Su Dong said, he really hadn't thought about it.

Feeling that you are not doing well enough, is this considered an inferiority complex?

There are some things that Su Dong has never told others, and some feelings can never be shared with others, even the closest parents, fiancee and friends, these will be deeply buried in his heart forever.

He really feels that he is inferior, because he always feels that he is not doing well enough, even if everyone around him has been telling him that he has done well enough and good enough, but he is still trying to do better. it is good.

This is just self-improvement?

Born in a weak football country, coupled with the experience of Portugal, it is not realistic to say that it has no effect on the psychology of Soviet Union and Eastern Europe.

Possessing the plug-in of the road to the king of the ball system has indeed improved Su Dong's psychology, but it is impossible to erase the psychological shadow in his heart.

It's like a person who has been poor for many years, suddenly wins the lottery and has a huge sum of money, what would he do?

Can he suddenly become confident?

Even if he deliberately expressed self-confidence, in fact, his mentality is still the poor man before. Even after many, many years, he has become famous, and there is still a shadow of poverty in his bones.

This is a lifetime thing!

Is this a bad thing?

Su Dong thinks not!

Low self-esteem makes him work harder and more diligent, allowing him to maintain a constantly growing motivation all the time.

It is a kind of psychology, even everyone will have it, even some people who seem extremely confident.

Perhaps behind the self-confidence, inferiority is hidden.

To understand low self-esteem, one must figure out what self-confidence is?

In Su Dong's understanding, there are two types of self-confidence: the strong and the weak.

The so-called self-confidence of the strong is a mentality of the strong. When you stand in a higher position to look at something and your opponent, you are sure that you can do it, be successful, and be able to defeat him, then you In the process of doing it, it will reveal a natural self-confidence of the strong.

It's like a fight between a strong adult and a child who has no arms to do. There is no reason to be unconfident, right?

The so-called self-confidence of the weak is actually full of unknowns about the future.

The opponent is stronger than you, and things are very difficult. You don't know whether you can succeed or not. You don't even know what the consequences will be. Everything is unknown.

In fact, people often have inferiority complex in this situation.

Just like Su Dong, when he faces three defensive players alone, he is actually not sure if he can do it, but he is the captain of the team, he has the responsibility, obligation and mission to help the team. Further reverse the situation.

It is this sense of responsibility and mission that allows him to do his best even when he has an inferiority complex and is at a disadvantage.

In Sissoko's view, this process of working hard is self-confidence!

Su Dong talked to many big guys, such as Beckenbauer, Cruyff, Platini, Maradona, Zidane, Ronaldo...

He found that he couldn't distinguish between low self-esteem and self-confidence in these people.

Many times, many legendary moments, they think about it afterwards. In fact, they did not have enough confidence at the time, but it was the sense of responsibility and mission that prompted them to do it and do their best. In the eyes of others, this is just a kind of confidence.

"Seek truth from facts, recognize yourself, stick to yourself, do your best, and face it calmly!"

"This is my attitude. As for inferiority complex or self-confidence, it doesn't matter!"

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When Su Dong smiled and expressed his feelings, Mohamed Sissoko really felt extremely shocked.

After landing in Europe for so many years, no one has ever said these things to him, and no one has ever taught him these principles.

Benitez is like a cold machine, the Italian coach is not much better, Sissoko is gradually lost.

But Su Dong’s remarks made him sober, and he began to feel that blindly denying himself and blindly asking himself to cater to others will only make himself more "inferior" and even fall into a kind of "inferiority." "The vicious circle.

He has his own strengths and weaknesses, he is not Vieira, nor anyone, he has a name.

His name is Muhammad Sissoko!

"Thank you, Su!" Sissoko stretched out his hands and held Su Dong's hand very hard.

On the contrary, Su Dong was a little surprised. He also expressed his feelings purely, saying something about his own experience. These are all his personal thoughts. I don't know why Sissoko's reaction was so big.

But it seems that this should be a good thing.

Oh no, it may not be a good thing for Manchester City.

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Sure enough, Manchester City won another victory in the new season after reversing Juventus three to one.

The league has won six consecutive victories and the Europa League has won two consecutive victories. If it weren't for the League Cup to be eliminated, Manchester City's state this season can be described as a shaky one, and Su Dong's performance has once again won unanimous recognition.

Especially when replacing him off the field, the scene where all the fans stood up and applauded him was followed by all the media and fans around the world. This was considered a signal that Su Dong completely conquered Manchester City fans.

But against Juventus, Sanchez was elected the best.

When the Chilean winger faced Juventus, he almost completely broke Juventus’s right into a sieve. Decelli was completely crippled and became the weakest link in Juventus’s defense, allowing Manchester City’s offense to do whatever it wanted. .

However, it's not all good news.

While Manchester City reversed Juventus 3-1, in another group match, Poland's Poznan Leich defeated the Salzburg Red Bull 2-0 at home and also won two consecutive victories.

It really broke the glasses.

In the first round of the group, after a three-to-three away draw with Juventus, Leahy Poznan defeated the Red Bull Salzburg in the second round two-zero, which made people even more convinced that Leahy Poznan is becoming Manchester City. The number one opponent in the group stage.

After the two rounds, Manchester City had two consecutive victories and scored six points. Poznan Leahy scored one win and one draw. He scored four points and ranked second in the group. Juventus ranked second with one draw and one loss. Third, the Salzburg Red Bulls lost both games without any points.

In other words, from the current situation, Poznan Leichy is most likely to threaten Manchester City's top team.

According to the schedule, in the next two rounds of the group stage, Manchester City will face Poznan Leahy at home and away. They will attack Poznan Leahy at home and away. These two games will be the key battles for the group title. .

For Juventus, if you want to counterattack in the group stage, you must win the Salzburg Red Bull in the next two games. At the same time, it is best to pray that Manchester City and Poznan Leichy will lose both. , The best two rounds are a tie, and Juventus wins both rounds, it can counterattack.

The reason for this passive situation subject to others is also related to Juventus's failure to play well in the first two rounds.

The home game failed to win Poznan Leahy, and the away game was reversed at Manchester City. Juventus missed the three-pointer at home.

If he could win Poznan Leichy at home, he wouldn't be so passive now.

But there is no if at all in this world.

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Over the weekend, in the seventh round of the Premier League, Manchester City played against Newcastle at home.

Due to continuous fighting, Su Dong was forced to take a break in this game, sitting on the bench ~ www.novelhall.com ~ Guardiola also rotated the lineup.

As a result, Newcastle's French winger Ben Alfa performed exceptionally bravely in the first half, assisting his teammate and scoring twice to help Newcastle lead with two goals.

Subsequently, Newcastle continued to withstand the transmission pressure of Manchester City, patiently looking for opportunities to counterattack.

Until the second half, Manchester City did not get a chance.

Su Dong came on the bench in the 70th minute, and in the 83rd minute, after retreating to receive the pass, he planned an attack. Adam Johnson scored a goal to help Manchester City get it back.

In the eighty-ninth minute, David Silva, who was also on the bench, sent an oblique pass. Su Dong scored a goal ten meters from the left side of the penalty area to tie the score for Manchester City.

But in the end, Manchester City failed to score again.

Two to two, Manchester City were drawn to a draw by Newcastle at home.