Liang Ying saw that her grandmother was confused. She was really dementia. She thought she was her mother. She used to look at the photos of her mother when she was young, and she looked very much like herself. Now her grandmother is so confused that it's not surprising that she is regarded as her mother.

Liang Ying heart plug moment, holding grandma's hand, said: "grandma, I am Liang Ying, a Xin's daughter."

"Well, which girl are you? Don't talk nonsense. How old is my ah Hin? How could you have such a big daughter? " Grandma laughed, a face you cheat me, I will not believe the look.

At this time, Zhang Qian pulled Liang Ying to the side and said, "don't argue with grandma. It's useless for you to explain to her. Her memory is all upside down now. In a word, she won't remember it in her head at all. You just follow her words and calm her mood. There's no need to worry about her. Even if you make it clear, she won't remember later. "

Liang Ying nodded. Although she had no experience in dealing with Alzheimer's patients, she knew from the old cadre in the yard that the patients with Alzheimer's disease could not remember anything in their brain. It was useless to talk to them.

Like that veteran cadre, sometimes he remembers something and knows that they are the children of his neighbors. Sometimes if I don't remember, I think they are playing in the yard. I will run out and scold them, saying where they come from. They can't get into the yard and want to drive them out.

It seems that the symptoms of Alzheimer's patients are mostly like this. Liang Ying sighs for a while.

"Grandma, have you eaten yet?" Zhang Qian changed the subject.

"Yes, yes, I have." Sure enough, as soon as grandma was changed the topic, she forgot the previous stubble.

Liang Ying was shocked to see that her grandmother's memory had declined too much. She thought, if her mother knew that her grandmother had become like this, would she come back to see her quickly?

Zhang Qian went into the room, lifted the rice cover on the table, looked at it, and then lifted the lid of the porridge pot

"Grandma, you haven't eaten yet. Look, the hot porridge in the morning is still there, and the food hasn't moved."

"Oh, no, look at my brain. By the way, ah Qian, whose is this girl from? So beautiful, dressed so foreign, is ah Qian your girlfriend

Grandma looked back to see Liang Ying, and asked again enthusiastically, and said: "girl, you also have lunch together, no good things, also porridge."

Liang Ying is stunned. Zhang Qiangang just introduces her. Now grandma doesn't remember her at all.

At this time, Zhang Qian looks at Liang Ying's puzzled eyes and doesn't explain any more. Anyway, he explains it a hundred times. Maybe grandma will recognize Liang Ying as his girlfriend the next second, so he has to blink at Liang Ying apologetically.

Liang Ying understand, also nodded, reached a consensus.

Zhang Qiansheng put the porridge on the table and said to grandma, "grandma, please eat. I'll watch you eat before you leave."

"Well, what a good boy." Grandma was obviously familiar with Zhang Qian and had not forgotten him. She sat down at the table with a happy face and began to eat.

Liang Ying saw that the dishes on the table were nothing more than a fried pickled vegetable, a salted bean, and a bowl of cabbage, which was a little blackened because it had been put for a long time. They were all vegetarian dishes without meat.

In the 1980s, meat was still tense, and it was normal for ordinary people to eat meat only twice or three times a month.

But now it's the 1990s. People with a decent family can eat meat every once in a while. When grandma is old and still eating such poor food, Liang Ying just feels sad.

"I can't help it. Grandma can't cook by herself now, so my mother comes here one night in advance, or in the morning to prepare the dishes for the day, and let Grandma eat by herself.

But grandma often forgets to eat. Everyone in the family has to go out to make money, and no one can stay to take care of her. Let's remind her who is free. "

Zhang Qian sighed.

Liang Ying feels very sad. Now she's not easy to intervene. After all, her grandmother has to be taken care of for a long time, and she has to rely on them.

But why didn't the father let his mother get in touch with the family? Does Father dislike this family?

Listen to what grandma just said, it's clear that she didn't like her mother's contact with educated youth at the beginning. What happened?

Liang Ying wants to ask Zhang Qian if he knows, but it's hard to ask in front of his grandmother.

Although grandma has dementia, but Liang Ying still feel unable to ask.

When grandma finished eating, Zhang Qian poured a glass of water for her and then talked to her. Grandma was sleepy and her eyelids drooped. Zhang Qian asked her to take a nap in the room.

Liang Ying looked around and saw that the room was front and back, the dining room and kitchen in front, and the master's bedroom in the back.

She followed Chen Qian to send her grandmother into the bedroom. It was dark in the bedroom, and she had to turn on the light in broad daylight. Because there was no sunshine for many years, and the ground was also wet. Although it was autumn, it still had a smell of mildew. I think it was the same all year round.

Liang Ying and Zhang Qian help grandma to bed and cover her with a thin quilt. After a while, grandma falls asleep.

Two people this just retreated from the bedroom, outside, Liang Ying asked Zhang Qian: "grandma now become like this, no one at home can take care of it?"

"Well, where can I take care of them? My mother has been married two blocks away, so we can come to see her from time to time. Third aunt married far away, in the east of the city, she did not come to see her grandmother for ten and a half days. However, she can't help it. She is a small worker. She can't make money if she doesn't work every day. Two children in her family, one is in the second year, the other is in the first year of senior high school. They don't work and spend a lot of money. Liu Kun, the cousin, was obsessed with going to college and changing his fate. No matter how hard he refused to work, his third aunt could only let him. They can't take care of grandma at home. " Zhang Qian sighed in embarrassment“ Do you know what happened to my mother and her family? Why doesn't my mother get in touch with her family? " Liang Ying couldn't help asking. Zhang Qian's face was slightly surprised. He didn't expect Liang Ying to ask this question. Then he frowned and said, "why don't you get in touch with your family? I don't know the details of this matter, because my aunt went to the capital before I was born, and my mother knew the situation. However, according to my mother's tone, it seems that she is also thinking about my aunt, and there should be no big deal. Maybe it's just what happened after the middle aunt went to the capital that she lost contact with us. " Zhang Qiandao. When Liang Ying heard about the speech, he also felt that the problem should be his own. Maybe the father told his mother not to contact the family, otherwise, Grandma had been living in the house left by her ancestors, and she could not have lost contact because she had no address. So in the final analysis, her mother lost contact with her family