Chapter 226

"Well, I'm really in the Wang Group..." Yu Shuiling said.

"I see." Liu Lang nodded and didn't say much. He reached out to take the box from Wang Liangrui: "come on, give it to me."

"Oh..." Wang Liangrui nodded subconsciously, but soon it was a reaction. He went back and said, "no, no, I'd better put it in the car for you. This is a little heavy... "

Liu Lang said with a smile: "do you think this weight is a matter for me?"

"Er..." Wang Liangrui was a little embarrassed, but he was also a master of refining gas. He was a man who could shake a thousand pounds of things with every move. He was just a box of milk powder. What's the point.

But after all, Wang Liangrui has seen a lot of world, and he can quickly come up with corresponding countermeasures for this situation.

Wang Liangrui said: "Liu Shao, this milk powder was sent by my father. So I have to finish what I should do. I hope Liu Shao won't make me embarrassed. It's not good to go back to my father..."

"Well, these are small things. You don't have to be too careful. I won't do anything to you, Even more disdain to do this kind of nonsense Liu Lang said: "besides, I'm not Liu Shao. It's good when I'm in a bar. I'm not old enough. You can call me little brother."

"It's not good..." Wang Liangrui doesn't like to flatter people, and he doesn't like to climb high branches. He always despises the children of Yanjing's big family.

He didn't like the children of the big families he had seen before, who were all above the top, arrogant and arrogant.

The reason why he is so respectful to Liu Lang lies in Wang Daoming's relationship and Liu Lang's three-tier master of gas refining. But more importantly, he is still respectful to Liu Lang.

To do is other people, he must not hesitate to pass the milk powder to each other, and then did not go back. He read countless people, we can see that Liu Lang is a "master of the world" who does not show his landscape. As a child of the Liu family in Yanjing, he doesn't have any dandy flavor, which is very to his taste. This kind of person is worthy of deep friendship. He also wants to make friends with Liu Lang.

Wang Liangrui always pays more than he gets in return for his friends. This is the main reason why he is so "attentive".

"Nothing. If you think I'm a friend, you don't have to be so unruly." Naturally, Liu Lang could see what Wang Liangrui thought in his heart. It was fate to meet him, so he said to him: "there must be no true friends around you. Even if you have them, I'm afraid they will be scared away by your politeness. Right? "

"... Liu Shao, no, little brother, how do you know?" Wang Liangrui is startled. Does the other party investigate himself?

But because of the subconscious belief in Liu Lang's personality, he is not willing to think in that way.

"You are indeed very suitable to be friends, but a true friend is not a one-sided one-sided one, but a mutual help." Liu Lang said with a smile.

"You are very good to your friend, and it is very good. As long as you treat him as a friend, you will try every means to help your friend, whether it is what the other party needs or not, and whether the other party has the ability to repay you. Although you don't mind that, it doesn't mean everyone is the same as you think. "

"Why?" What a smart man Wang Liangrui is, but it's true to say that if one person is outstanding in one field, he will be short of strength in another. What Liu Lang said at this time was that Wang Liangrui couldn't figure it out.

"Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome?"

"I know." Wang Liangrui nodded, but he didn't understand what Liu Lang said, but he didn't ask, because he knew that Liu Lang's words had not been finished, so he quietly waited for Liu Lang to continue.

Sure enough, after a pause, Liu Lang continued: "if you know this mental illness, I won't explain it any more. Just like Stockholm syndrome, if you are too kind to a person and don't ask for anything in return, the greed of human nature will grow, and you will ask for too much convenience. You even feel that you should be kind to him. Once you notice it, you begin to refuse him, He will hate you for that. "

"You should have heard such a story. There is a kind-hearted man who gives a beggar a dollar to go to work every day. In the long run, the beggar is used to it. Suddenly one day, this person lost his job and had no source of income. For him, a dollar was also a meal, so he had no money to give to the beggar. One day, the beggar met this man and asked him why he didn't give him any money. Didn't he give up a dollar? No matter how that person explains it, it's all sophistry in the eyes of beggars. In the end, he even fights against that person. Whose fault do you think it is? "

"This... This beggar is too unreasonable." After listening to Liu Lang's story, Yu Shuiling just thinks that beggars are unreasonable. You have hands and feet, you don't support yourself, and you just think about others' alms. It's good for others to give alms to you. If you don't give alms, you are also others' freedom. Why do you beat others?Yu Shuiling's way of thinking is very simple. It's also Wang Liangrui's original idea. He thinks that he can't understand it.

But at this time, after Liu Lang mentioned it in this case, he suddenly realized: "I see... I understand..."

Then there was a wry smile and shaking his head. It seemed that it was his fault all the time

"You don't have to blame yourself for all the mistakes, even though the giver didn't do it right, But that doesn't mean he's wrong. " Liu Lang shook his head and said: "in today's world, everyone is indifferent because there are too many cheaters who pretend to be disabled and cheat money on the street. It's a good thing to cheat money. The hateful ones are the guys who touch porcelain. They dare not even help Granny cross the road. The almsgiving man is right, but some people, you can't get used to him. It's OK to do it twice at a time. You can't make them feel that you should pay him what you deserve. "

"I think that a few times ago, the almsgiving man gave a beggar a dollar, and the beggar was very grateful, because now there are really not many people who want to give money to beggars. But he was wrong because he thought he was really good to others. In fact, he did harm to the beggar

"For... Why?" Yu Shuiling doesn't understand again.

"Your mind is too simple to understand. Because the almsgiving person gives money to the beggars every day, the beggars have a stable source of income, just like working alone. You get paid at a fixed time every month, but suddenly one day, you are fired for no reason. What do you think if you lose your source of income? " Liu Lang looks at Yu Shuiling road with a smile.

Yu Shuiling frowned and thought, "I'll go to the leader for an explanation."

Liu Lang nodded: "yes, that beggar will also go to the almsgiving person to ask for an explanation."

Yu Shuiling said: "but he... He shouldn't hit people either..."

Liu Lang is speechless and chokes. It seems that the point is not to hit people

"I see." Wang Liangrui took a deep breath, looked at Liu Lang seriously and said, "listening to you is better than reading for ten years. Thank you very much."