154 Chapter 154 Is It Important to Be a Household 3 (3)

Fang Chengzhi used to go to the countryside to be an educated youth when he was young. At that time, children in the city went to the countryside to be educated youths. Boys and girls lived together day and night, so there were many feelings. Many educated youths who went to the countryside encountered "true love." "A lot of people got married, but then they returned to the city and got more divorced. Why?

Not because of the loss of feelings, but because of differences in lifestyle habits and ideas. When passion is over, love is replaced by firewood and oil and salt. Living together, the collision and break-in of lifestyle habits occupy a large part of the marriage life. However, because of his childhood experience and different living environment, leading to different living habits and ideas, conflicts will inevitably occur during the process of running-in. Once this conflict cannot be resolved, the two people will quarrel, and they can be reconciled once and not bothered. How about three times, five times and ten times?No amount of feelings can afford the quarrel of the whole day, so many people come to an end.

These were all seen by Fang Chengzhi himself. He didn't want to watch his baby daughter go detours.

Although the households are somewhat feudal stubborn, but it is not unreasonable. Two people with similar living standards live together, and the friction will indeed be much less than those with too large differences in conditions, especially the kind that their families now face. Fang Tong's conditions are much better than the other party's.

"Tongtong, Dad has seen a lot of examples of small conflicts and small conflicts that made it impossible to make a final divorce. You are Dad's daughter, and Dad doesn't want you to take a detour."

Fang Chengzhi's focus was long, Fang Tong was silent, and then looked at his father and said, "Dad, I admit that your words are reasonable, but there is a contradiction to communicate, so the two people sit down and communicate well, and there are no problems that can't be solved."

"Tongtong, don't your mom and dad still kill you, your mom doesn't mean you have to have more money in the other's house, even if the other's house is in a little better condition, the gap between us and our family should not be too big, and my mother will not object. But this condition of their family, mother does not agree."

Fang Tong was anxious. "Mom, you haven't seen his people. How can you deny others so easily, it's not fair to him."

"Fair? What is fair? Tongtong, do we protect you so well on weekdays to make you so naive? Where is fairness in this world, if he can immediately buy a house of his own in Beijing , Mom has absolutely no second words."

"Mom, you are too poor to love the rich," Fang Tong looked ugly, yelling at Fu Fanghua.Such a mother, she only feels strange, "Dad, look at your mother, where can you be like this?"

Fang Chengzhi looked at her daughter's ugly face, and at the anger of his wife's eyes, his expression was serious, "Tong Tong, you can't talk to your mother like that, let's not say what your mother said is right, first of all, your attitude is wrong, this Is it your attitude towards elders?"

Fang Tong's face stiffened, and he realized that he was really overdone just now, but his mother loved her so much, but she yelled at her. Thinking of this, she felt very guilty and bowed her head to admit the mistake, "Mom, I'm sorry."

Fu Fanghua was unhappy, but what her daughter could do, sighed, "Tongtong, don’t blame your mother for being unreasonable, your parents can depend on you, but this matter is related to your future happiness, Mom must not allow you to play tricks. Obediently listen to Mom’s words, find a time to speak clearly with that boy, and then meet with your Uncle Li’s son, it doesn’t matter if you don’t like your Uncle Li’s son, Mom knows a lot Colleagues' children, there are a few very good ones..."

"Mom, don't say it." Fang Tong interrupted Fu Fanghua's words. "I won't tell him to break up. I love him, and he loves me. I will marry him after graduation."

"Nonsense!" Fu Fanghua scolded, looking at the daughter who refused to enter. "Fang Tong, I said disagree or disagree. You want to marry him. Yes, you are no longer our Fang's daughter."

Fang Tong did not dare to look at Fu Fanghua. Fang Chengzhi quickly stood up to appease his angry wife. "The daughter is still young. If we have anything to tell her, she will understand."

"Tell me, I didn't say anything to her, but did she listen to it? It means marriage and marriage. Did you ask someone to marry you? Did they accept you? Did I agree with your dad?"

Fang Tong has been an obedient child since childhood, especially after her husband was transferred to Linshi for work a few years ago. Most of the time, it was their mother and daughter who lived together. The mother and daughter had a very good relationship. Fang Tong has always been her intimate padded jacket. Fu Fanghua hurts Fang Tong more than anyone else. Today, Fang Tong was really annoyed, otherwise he couldn't say that.

Looking at her daughter's incredibly pale face, Fu Fanghua felt a little regret in her heart that he had said something he wanted to say, but he didn't say anything after all.

Fang Chengzhi clapped his wife's hand and walked to her daughter, "Tongtong, your mother was just in a hurry just now, and the words were a bit heavier, but it was not entirely wrong. The boy may be really excellent, Maybe in a few years, he can buy a house in Beijing with his own abilities, but now, definitely not, if you are with him, then you have to save money to buy a house in the first few years, and your life will not be as good It’s as chic as you are now."

Fang Chengzhi carefully analyzed the pros and cons with her daughter, "You are the only child of my mother and you. Although our family has not enough time, but it is more than the following. You have not suffered hard since you were young, and you have never committed money. Worry, if you want to buy something on weekdays, you don’t have to think about money. Mom and dad will buy it for you. But if you plan to be with that boy, you won’t have these now, you need Make your own money to feed yourself, because to buy a house, you have to endure what you like to see. Others can go on vacation and eat a big meal. You have to cut back on food and clothing. Have you thought about this?"

Fang Tong was silent. She did not think about it. She thought that with Ding Minghui, their family would not be able to afford a house, and they would rent a house to live, but she did not think about what Dad said.

"Mom and Dad have only one child for you. Everything in the family is for you. You can say that you will marry our family to buy a house. At this point, Mom and Dad will not have an opinion. Our family also has this strength, but can their family agree? What would he think of the boy even if their family agreed? Others would say that he is a Phoenix man, he may not mind at first, but after a long time? Tongtong, the heart of the person will change."

Digression

In fact, as far as I am concerned, it is still very important. This door-to-door pair is not just about economic strength, but more about ideas, lifestyles, marriage and love are not all in one, and bitterness and sweetness are not simple. I love you enough.(Personal point of view, do not like do not spray.)