As many people say and do after they fall in love, girls are good at being alone, and each other lives well. But when they meet, they burst out of emotion, which is an explosion. They both feel that they love each other very much. From opening their eyes to falling asleep, they see each other every day. This kind of love is just the love of young people. Of course, many adults, Even the elderly also have such a way to get along with emotion, beyond reproach!

"I didn't get used to it at that time. I got a job and had to write books. I was very busy every day, but no matter how busy I was, I felt very happy when I thought of him. It seemed that my whole life had been ignited!" The girl said this, a happy smile on her face, slowed down for a while, and said: "I think this is the love I want. I'm not afraid of loneliness, and I'm never lonely. You think, a book writer has many worlds in his mind. How can he be lonely? Although in the real world, there are many men and women who are lonely to death every day, but I'm not like that, I'm lonely at most. I'm never lonely. "

"Yes, people in this world are always lonely. Their parents, relatives and lovers can accompany them for a while and a long time, but they are lonely after all. But they can't be so extreme. For example, I've experienced more lonely things than you, but I'm full of love now!" Lin Mingyuan said with emotion.

"Yes? Then you are very lucky

"Lucky?" Lin Mingyuan looked at the girl, the latter nodded seriously, said: "experienced a lot, but not lost, still full of hope, is not lucky what?"

"Yes, too!" Lin Mingyuan thought of the first time to kill, the first time to do a task, the first time to complete a task, the first time to sacrifice, the first time to be injured, many first times, many first times, and countless times after that, which made him tough and strong, but not extreme and desperate, but still full of curiosity and vitality to the world!

"At that time, he was really happy. He also needed me, but comparatively speaking, he was more boring at that time. He was not busy at work every day, watching plays and playing games, and then he accompanied me. Oh, I played games, but I didn't watch plays, so he played with him every day, just like doing anything was more interesting."

"Can understand, can imagine!"

"The key is, even if you don't do anything, just face your mobile phone and look at each other. It's very interesting. It's a kind of good feeling that you only have each other in your eyes, and then you can do nothing!" The girl's face is happy. Compared with the despair just now, it is absolutely different. Lin Mingyuan believes that they must have loved each other very much at that time.

"But in other places, there are some bad things. For example, I don't understand that he doesn't tell me to his friends and relatives. I don't really understand that although I don't have any love experience, my close friends are very concerned about my affairs. After I have him, I tell them. Of course, I don't take the initiative to say it. For example, we just chat, They will ask me how to giggle when I have nothing to do. I will say that I'm in love. It's a very good person. Although he is young and immature, he is more mature than me in many aspects. So we will discuss some things. He likes to discuss some things with people, his views on something, and even philosophy. What about me, I've read a lot of books over the years, but some of my ideas are extreme. This is my bad idea! "

"It's very good. If you go to a deeper debate, you can have a spark!"

"At the beginning, it was very good, because there were so many things in the world worth discussing, but later it was a little... How to say, we were all slack and less discussed. He had to study every day because he was busy with his work, so he had less time every day, which was not so convenient. From the beginning, he kept videos every day and kept his mobile phone on all night, After that, the contact was reduced! "

"Love should give each other space, and then love should be given. This is the right of adults to be alone. Even after marriage, two people can't get tired of being together every day, and they are not idle!" Lin Mingyuan said.

"Yes, so at first I didn't adapt, because I was used to being alone. Of course, he was also alone for a long time. But at that time, we were in love. We were willing to sacrifice our space for each other, and we didn't feel anything. But things were developing. Later, we found that it was not good. We loved each other, But we should also have our own time alone, he also mentioned, but I fell into a kind of obstinacy at that time, now think about it, it's still my fault, I should give space to each other and myself. But I haven't loved for a long time. I mistakenly think that every day's company is love. Now I'm sober, that's also love. But when the other party doesn't need it, you should correct it and give each other space! "

"It doesn't need to be too absolute. Maybe it's a kind of growth. When you are young, you always feel that company is more important. Isn't there such a saying that company is the confession of the longest love. In fact, it's a kind of great love, a kind of long-lasting and eternal love. It's also the love that many men and women crave all their lives but can't get?" Like a love philosopher, Lin Mingyuan said a lot. The girl agreed with him and said, "I'm a book writer. I've seen a lot of love, so I think company is the most important thing. But I forget one thing. I'm still immature at my age, and I'm still childish. But the other party is different, For a boy, when he wants to go out into the world, what he should do is to support, understand, tolerate and encourage him. When he is frustrated, I hug him and tell him that even if the world is no longer good, with me, he can always be vulnerable, weak, crying and venting! "

Lin Mingyuan began to appreciate the girl. With the conversation, he found that she was really a smart and nice girl.

"It should be so!" Lin Mingyuan nodded for sure.

"He also solemnly said, it's like going to the beach to catch a handful of sand. In the case of no water, the more you want to hold your hand and catch the sand, the faster the sand will leak. In the end, there may be only a little bit of sand left in the palm of your hand! Even if there is nothing left, the sand will keep trying to run and escape because you are too hard. "