Jiang Chan sighed and knew where Lin Hanyan's paranoia was: "but he is a person, not an object. If you hold a morbid desire for possession, the result will only push him further."

"So I don't dare to approach again. The two love affairs in my last life make me exhausted." Lin Hanyan hugged her knee and tried to curl herself up.

"I devote myself wholeheartedly to every love. I regard him as all I have, but it is inevitable that we will have a quarrel. I apologize when we quarrel, but in the end they still want to break up with me. I can't bear this endless torture."

"I know, I know, no one in the world knows you better than me." Jiang Chan knows all Lin Hanyan's memories, so no one in the world can know Lin Hanyan better than her.

"Little cicada, am I sick?" Lin Hanyan asked after a long silence.

Jiang Chan frowned: "you're not sick. You just lack a sense of security. Because you can't get father's love and mother's love since childhood, you've been in this insecure environment for a long time. You're eager to catch everyone around you. You just use the wrong way."

"Sometimes, if you want to get more, you should know to let go appropriately. The tighter you hold, the more you will lose."

"I can't let go. I'm worried that if I let go, he will leave without looking back." Lin Hanyan hesitated: "I love him so much. Why can't he keep a distance from other girls for me?"

"What's your so-called measure of keeping distance?" Jiang Chan asked, "it's better for him not to say a word with the opposite sex? How is it possible? People always have to deal with all kinds of people when they are based in society. A person who doesn't say a word with the opposite sex is not a promising person."

Seeing that Lin Hanyan was silent for a long time and didn't speak, Jiang Chan spoke again: "Yanyan, I'm not blaming you, but sometimes I have to be considerate. If one day you make a boyfriend and you work as a fashion designer, you will inevitably come into contact with the opposite sex. If he asks you not to say a word to others, he always takes urgent measures to mark you. Can you stand this?"

Lin Hanyan shook his head: "maybe he can accept it. He thinks it's a sign of his love for me, but he doesn't feel good after a long time. He feels bound."

"So, if you have this feeling, others will naturally have it. The bond that maintains the relationship between two people is love, but love is not a constraint. It should make you better."

"Good love should let you go out of the pain of the past and make you a better person. If there is a person who makes you unhappy and makes you depressed or crazy, he is doomed to be a bad lover."

"So, Yan Yan, don't be afraid. If you really like him, accept him bravely. Anyway, I will always be here." Jiang Chan finally encouraged, "if you don't try, you never know what kind of talent is suitable for you."

"I'm still worried," said Lin Hanyan, biting her lips. "I always want to return home in the future. If I talk about a foreign boyfriend, what if he insists on staying here? In the end, there is only one way to break up."

"I know, I know you want to take a long time." Jiang Chan comforted her: "but these are your thoughts. If you don't ask, you will never know each other's thoughts. Maybe the result will disappoint you. If you don't even have the courage to try, is it too cowardly?"

"Little cicada, will you always be there?" after thinking for a long time, Lin Hanyan suddenly asked.

Jiang Chan was stunned: "as long as you need me, I will always be there. We have been together for several years. If I just leave you and go back, I don't trust. I can't leave until I see that you live a happy life and have a happy and smooth life."

With that said, Jiang Chandu has been ready to accompany Lin Hanyan all her life. The girl's psychology is too fragile. She really doesn't know what she will do if she leaves rashly.

"That's good, that's good." Lin Hanyan patted his heart: "what do I do wrong in the future, little cicada? You should tell me more. I don't know what's going on. Once I talk to you, my heart will be much calmer."

"If you have something wrong, I will definitely point it out." Jiang Chan said faintly, "I will always be there, unless one day you are really independent."

Lin Hanyan's problem is psychological at large, but it is caused by the harm brought by her native family and her lack of sense of security at small scale.

Jiang Chan once read that some people use childhood to cure their whole life, while others use their whole life to cure their childhood. Lin Hanyan happens to be the latter.

Growing up in an environment lacking love, no one taught her how to love. She was like a child. Meeting someone she liked was like owning a doll and wanted to hold each other firmly in the palm of her hand.

After a long time, the other party is tired and they are tired. It is inevitable that the two sides will argue. After the dispute, they will make up and quarrel again. They fall into a vicious circle.

Sometimes, in order to retain the other party or determine their position in the other party's heart, they will inevitably make some drastic actions. After the initial dispute, it may be just text message bombing or life-threatening serial calls, but later it will further deteriorate, self mutilation or suicide.

Lin Hanyan died after taking a lot of sleeping pills in her last life. Thinking of the outcome of her last life, Jiang Chan sighed. So, what's good about love? It's better to be free alone like her.

But she is fundamentally different from Lin Hanyan. Her heart is strong, and love is not so attractive to her. But Lin Hanyan is different. She lacks love. Her inner appeal is to have someone sincerely love her, take care of her and heal her inner pain.

Aware that Lin Hanyan had fallen asleep, Jiang Chan sighed. Sometimes I really think it's unfair. Parents are the only profession who can take up their posts without taking any certificates. Their right to come to the world is not determined by themselves, but by their parents.

It's not too irresponsible to be born without raising. An Weike and Lin Danqiu are the culprits of Lin Hanyan's current psychological state. But there is no way. Since the original family cannot be changed, all Lin Hanyan can do is change herself.

"Good morning, little cicada." maybe it was Jiang cicada's enlightenment. When she got up the next day, Lin Hanyan was in good spirits.