Chapter 1353

No matter what changes Jiang Pengji has brought to this era, such changes will take time to ferment and spread,

As time goes on, new ideas can slowly replace people's habitual old thinking.

It will take more than ten years or even decades to break out. At present, the old thinking still dominates.

In people's old thinking, men are in charge of making money and socializing, while women are in charge of maintaining the family, taking care of children and supporting their parents.

It seems that the division of labor is clear, but it actually limits women's activity areas and horizons, making the idea of "men are superior to women" more deeply rooted.

Even the noble women of the prominent scholar family cannot live without their inner homes, husbands, elders and children.

In addition to these projects, there is also the so-called "Lady diplomacy". Ladies should help their husbands expand and consolidate their contacts in foreign activities.

Before the rise of maruju, Jiang Pengji had a small number of ministers, of which single dogs and DINK accounted for half.

After the rise of maruju, jinshige absorbed a large number of middle-level talents for Jiang Pengji, most of whom were married.

When her husband was sent abroad to fight or manage the local economy, the wives stayed in maruju.

Over time, they also felt a little irritable, and gradually began to walk around each other.

The size of these ladies' girlfriends depends on their husbands' status and relationship in officialdom, and their husbands have a good relationship.

Ladies have good friends, husbands have high status, and ladies have a large circle of girlfriends.

Even if it's not good before, four seasons and eight festivals will increase contacts. It's natural to be familiar with one coming and two going.

Before Jiang Pengji attacked Huang song, the ladies began to move around. When she came back from the war, all tea parties would bloom.

The tea party is a battlefield for ladies to show their "diplomatic means". They have an account in their hearts for which relationship should be good and which relationship should be alienated. Han Yu's wife, as the highest born lady among them, is naturally the highest among them.

Although I don't like these poor women in my heart and dislike their coarseness and stupidity, I show no leakage on my face.

Her tea party is also the best and most considerate in the maruzhou ladies' circle. Which lady doesn't envy?

Outsiders don't know that her husband and wife relationship with Han Yu is about to freeze. Seeing that she lives a delicate and elegant life, she will naturally envy them for their deep love between husband and wife, which can be called a model. Mrs. Han enjoys the feeling of stars and the moon, which makes her feel like going back to the past.

At the beginning, in Zhejiang county, her tea party was also "no white people". The wife with low status and low birth background was not even qualified to receive her invitation. Now she has to endure a group of women with uneven level and no self-restraint to attend her tea party.

That's all right. These rough women who can only drink cattle like to complain about their husbands and tell their suffering at tea parties.

As Jiang Pengji went higher and higher, they suffered more.

Her husband's official career has developed and her status has risen. Almost every family has one or two beautiful concubines in their backyards.

Beautiful concubines threatened their main room status, and some beautiful concubines were pregnant and almost had to stand on their heads and pee.

Ladies seemed to have found a common topic and talked endlessly. Mrs. Han hated it in her heart.

Such a vulgar woman, no wonder her old age is despised by her husband. Which man would like a yellow faced woman who has no connotation and is naughty?

"Last night, that little hoof said that he had a stomachache. It was clear that he was greedy and ate the wrong thing. He just pushed people around and wronged me. What am I trying to do with her child? I'm just a concubine who can't stand the table. I really treat myself as a person."

She said she didn't care, but the handkerchief was almost broken by her, and her eyes were red.

"This is good. The one who lives in Chang'an lane is really miserable." Another lady sighed, "my mother-in-law doesn't like her, and my husband dislikes her. Look at this posture, she wants to help the concubine rise to the top of the room and let her demote herself into a concubine and abdicate to a good man - she won't. It's said that she was slapped by her mother-in-law in front of the servants of the whole house, and her face was swollen three or five times. There was too much noise last night, I'm afraid it might have gone out -"

These ladies live a boring life. In order to alleviate their loneliness, the tea party is naturally a good channel to pass the time. They are regular guests of the tea party and are familiar with each other. As soon as they heard it, they knew who the lady in Chang'an lane was. They couldn't help sighing and saying pity.

Mrs. Han Yu was even more angry after listening to gossip.

These stupid women don't know what "family ugliness can't be publicized"?

Casually saying that the house scandal is everywhere deserves to be hated by her husband.

Mrs. Han was going to take a sip of tea and was surprised. She only heard the voice of a strange woman in her ear.

The other party's voice is not as crisp as oriole. On the contrary, some men's rough and hoarse, which has the flavor of a woman?

She said, "such a man, give it up."

The lady who heard the voice followed the prestige and saw a woman sitting in the corner with a very simple dress, and her clothes were not bright.

If it weren't for sitting at the table, others would think it was some nurse who served people.

"Why do you talk like that?"

The woman said, "what's wrong? A man who has changed his heart, spoiled his concubine and killed his wife, but also allowed his concubine room to be a demon, which filled the house with evil wind and evil spirit. What can such a man do in this life? It's better to give up early and remarry and find someone with brains."

The ladies blushed with shame.

They complain and never want to leave.

In addition, that's their husband. Where did a small official's wife comment?

A humanitarian, "what a presumptuous bitch."

"Just now I saw that the woman had a disease in her right foot." Another lady sitting next to the woman said coldly, "one of the seven women is a bad disease. Instead of talking nonsense here and disturbing the peace of others' homes, she might as well find a way to avoid becoming a next door wife."

This is quite polite. Some people directly question the woman's identity.

Her dress really doesn't look like a forced lady. Even whose wife is estimated to be a small official.

How can the wife of a small official be qualified to participate in this level of tea party?

Although Han Yu's wife's character is quite different, her memory and ability are still outstanding among noble women.

Even if there are more than a hundred guests, she can accurately shout out each other's identity and be warm.

She ordered people to prepare the invitations for the tea party. Naturally, it would not happen to invite the unknown little official's wife.

She looked at the woman carefully and tried to match the other party with the invitation.

Mrs. Han's tea party is the most famous in maruzhou ladies' circle. She is also Han Yu's wife. Naturally, the women's dependents of Feng Jin and others cannot be omitted from the invitation. However, many girls' families declined. The only woman who replied was the wife of Colonel Dianyin... Is it difficult

Without waiting for Mrs. han to make a sound, Dianyin's wife smiled without anger and said clearly, "it doesn't bother you to worry. There has never been a concubine at home, only a concubine. If he is unfaithful, he will naturally play the Lord and order him to leave."

Ladies still want to laugh.

What, next cousin, what's this word?