Chapter 19

Teacher Mei certainly wouldn't listen to Chu Xiaoyi's nonsense. She showed an embarrassing smile on her face and hesitated: "sorry, what did you say..."

Chu Xiaoyi sighed and said, "I know your major has its own methods, such as how to intervene in children's behavior, strengthen, punish and eliminate... But these are useless to Chu Xiaoxiao. It may be effective for ordinary children, but she has a certain adult wisdom and gradually gets rid of this set."

Chu Xiaoyi, as a troublemaker of parents called countless times, has long summarized her experience in getting along with all kinds of teachers. The strictness and friendliness shown by teachers are only tools for managing students. Strictness is to maintain order and friendliness is to motivate. Sometimes they don't represent their thoughts.

"I may not speak as politely as my mother. You should be my sister's caretaker and belong to unreasonable bear parents. I'll tell you I'm sorry first." Chu Xiaoyi gave a preventive injection in advance and confessed, "To tell you the truth, it was wrong for you to work with emotion at first, but now you don't have time to pester these. Xiao Xiao will fight back against the severe methods and don't eat your friendly ones. Now there is only sincerity left."

"What she cares about is not who likes her or not. What she cares about is the other party's attitude and the real attitude of equal communication with her. I let you sell miserably. In short, I let you tell her your troubles and pain, and she will understand after listening. That's called handshake and peace." Chu Xiaoyi felt that the last handshake and peace was a process. Chu Xiaoxiao didn't understand the crux, and it's estimated that Miss Mei didn't say it either.

Teacher Mei disagreed: "we can't say this to children..."

Chu Xiaoyi: "you can't work with emotions. Since you have emotions at the beginning, you can just bring emotions to the end. At least let her know the reason."

Miss Mei was speechless for a moment.

"I don't know if you want to be a teacher in the future, but I don't want Xiao Xiao's final impression of you, that is, the first teacher in her childhood didn't like her, she didn't like the teacher, and then it disappeared." Chu Xiaoyi shook his head, "This matter has no effect except to make her feel uncomfortable, and her impression of the teacher has become worse."

Chu Xiaoyi used to be a thorn in the class. He met both good teachers and bad teachers. The disgust and rejection of those teachers inside and outside the words and the slightest contempt from the corners of his eyes are unforgettable to him all his life. Now he wants to be upset.

Chu Xiaoyi had a violent fight with a male teacher for some time. When he was scolded by the other party, he didn't respond; when the other party was soft, he ignored it. Once Liang Zi was settled, the two sides seemed to have a great hatred, and the hatred had to die.

Finally, the male teacher said helplessly, "Chu Xiaoyi, I'm just an ordinary person. I really don't know how to take care of you..."

The male teacher no longer yelled loudly or pretended to be nice. The other party confessed his incompetence, but Chu Xiaoyi's heart knot opened. He suddenly felt that he had no hatred with the male teacher, the other party was not an authority, and the other party was just an ordinary person. Since he was an ordinary person, how could he have a big hatred?

In the past, male teachers had certain power in the school and seemed to be able to oppress students wantonly, which naturally brought Chu Xiaoyi a high sense of vigilance and always felt that he was deliberately targeting himself. However, the teacher took off his shelf and confessed his weakness, so Chu Xiaoyi was no longer tight and just felt suddenly open.

The two sides have never had trouble with each other again. Chu Xiaoyi occasionally goes back to school to see him. They don't like or hate each other, that is, ordinary students and ordinary teachers. Chu Xiaoyi has both favorite and disgusting teachers, but he feels very calm about the male teacher and won't be upset when he thinks of him occasionally.

Chu Xiaoyi doesn't want her sister to think of the first teacher in the future. Disgust is an emotion that makes her unhappy, and it will be deeply buried in her heart. You think you have successfully got rid of the tired teacher, but the influence of the other party doesn't dissipate easily, and you will still stab it from time to time.

Because it's a teacher, maybe it's just a profession, but in the eyes of immature children, it's a representative of authority. No one likes to be denied by authority. Even if they say they don't care, they will leave a mark in their heart.

Chu Xiaoxiao likes teaching people to learn foreign languages so much. How can she not look at the teacher?

Teacher Mei followed Chu Xiaoyi on the road and felt exhausted as never before. She occasionally wanted to run away. She simply resigned now and didn't deal with it anymore, but she couldn't bear it. If she left in a hurry, maybe Chu Xiaoyi really left an impression of disgust with her teacher?

Teacher Mei didn't know how to get along with Chu Xiao. Even if she tried to smile on her face, the other party saw through her appearance and made her at a loss.

"Xiao Xiao, Miss Mei is coming." Chu Xiaoyi opened her mouth at the door of the classroom and saw the little thing in the room looking up.

To tell the truth, Chu Xiaoyi also doesn't know the final result. Anyway, the worst case is that the two sides talk and teacher Mei leaves. Chu Xiaoxiao left a annoying teacher in his childhood memory. Now he can only leave space for them and do his best to listen to fate.

After closing the door, Miss Mei looked at the quiet Chu Xiao and stood there awkwardly. She didn't know how to speak. She didn't laugh or not. Her expression management was out of control and fell into a long silence.

Chu Xiaoxiao also didn't know what to say. She looked at teacher Mei silently and didn't know what she was looking at.

Both sides were like wooden people for more than ten seconds. Teacher Mei took the lead in relaxing and said, "Xiao Xiao, I don't know how to contact you now..."

This is the truth. She used the stern side and the friendly side. Now she has exhausted her means.

Chu Xiaoxiao: "teacher, do you not like your work or me?"

In the face of the sudden straight ball problem, Miss Mei will be defeated in an instant. According to reason, the teacher can't give bad hints to the child. The problem is that she says she likes it, and the other party doesn't seem to believe it.

Chu Xiaoyi said that Chu Xiaoxiao doesn't care whether she likes it or not. What she cares about is her attitude.

Miss Mei thought about this. She could only consider her words and said with a complex look: "well, this kind of thing can't be divided simply. Sometimes I like my work and sometimes I don't like it very much... Of course, I can't say I don't like it. It should be said that the teacher is too tired and can't control the mood well."

Teacher Mei didn't know whether the child could understand it. She admitted her fatigue, but felt relaxed. She smiled bitterly and said, "it's really bad for me. I should adjust my state by myself and shouldn't affect Xiao Xiao. The teacher can't keep a good spirit all day. I can only prolong the time as much as possible."

Mr. Mei didn't say such words before. Most three-year-old children can't understand it. They are still in a period of ignorance.

Chu Xiaoxiao nodded. She recalled the scene of chaos at the beginning of school, and could roughly understand Miss Mei's mood.

The first time teacher Mei saw her show positive feedback, she hardened her head and said, "then why did Xiao do that? We shook hands and made peace last semester?"

Chu Xiaoxiao: "no handshake, you didn't make peace with me."

Teacher Mei was a little worried and said, "why not? I've tried to change?"

Chu Xiaoxiao: "your face is smiling. You don't think so."

Miss Mei: "

Teacher Mei found that Chu Xiaoxiao was really very sensitive. She simply said frankly: "because I don't know whether we have made peace, I'm still uncertain. I can only take the lead in passing goodwill to Xiao Xiao, tentatively smile at you, and wait for your feedback to confirm..."

"If Xiao Xiao doesn't give me feedback, I don't know what you're thinking, and the more difficult it is to determine our relationship." teacher Mei simply walked over and sat in front of Chu Xiao, helpless, "Xiao Xiao, you rarely give me feedback."

Children are praised for doing right things and criticized for doing wrong things, that is, teachers and students give feedback back and forth to guide their behavior. Chu Xiaoxiao has an invisible system. She seems to screen the people around her in advance and never give feedback to some people.

Chu Xiaoxiao showed a thoughtful look. She could see the teacher's mood, but the teacher didn't seem to know her mood.

In the teacher's opinion, she has released to show a good signal, but Chu Xiaoxiao has not received it, so the misunderstanding is getting deeper and deeper.

Chu Xiaoxiao: "then why don't you show your smiling face at the beginning?" she still doesn't understand. Miss Mei is very serious in class and always has a straight face.

Teacher Mei was stunned when she heard the speech. She couldn't help scratching her face, her eyes floated to one side, and said with an embarrassed smile: "I always laugh when I first started working, but my face is not very effective in the class..."

Miss Mei is kind and lovely. She used to laugh when she first entered the workplace, but she couldn't hold down the children at all. Children are a bit soft and afraid of hard creatures. Once they find you talking, they will attack them in groups, regardless of discipline.

Teacher Mei suffers a disadvantage compared with her predecessors. She can't hold the bear child with a stern look. Naturally, she needs some human bonus. Chu Xiaoxiao belongs to the sensible school, but many children don't know what they are doing. If they don't stop it, they will be noisy forever.

Miss Mei really poured out all her weaknesses. She didn't know what she was talking about. She just frankly revealed her feelings. She used to have the idea of making friends with children on an equal footing, but not every equality will yield a response. Some children like to pinch persimmons soft.

Chu Xiaoxiao's confusion has been solved. Teacher Mei's mood is very calm now, which makes Chu Xiaoxiao relax.

Chu Xiao gently stretched out his little hand, came forward and touched her face and comforted, "no, the teacher smiles very well. We won't be disobedient."

Miss Mei didn't expect the little girl to do so. She looked at each other's sincere eyes incredibly and almost burst into tears on the spot!

This is probably when she likes working!

Chu Xiao felt teacher Mei's emotion. She took back her hand and looked. She hesitated and said, "is this feedback?"

Chu Xiaoxiao seems to understand what Miss Mei means. If Miss Mei takes the lead in sending a good signal, no matter what the other party thinks, she should give the other party a certain response, just like praise for doing the right thing. Teacher Mei will be happy to like her a little.

Teacher Mei nodded desperately: "yes, the teacher can know Xiao Xiao's idea now and won't be at a loss."

"The teacher will feel very happy when she receives feedback and doesn't feel tired." teacher Mei doesn't care about the leadership or salary. What she wants is the child's feedback, but Chu Xiaoxiao has never been before. She draws the boundary very clearly.

Chu Xiao seemed to realize something and murmured, "the teacher is actually the same as me. When I receive the teacher's feedback, I won't hate the kindergarten."

Chu Xiaoxiao now receives a trace of teacher Mei's love, and suddenly feels that the previous things are nothing. She wants to be genuinely liked, but she didn't know how to really like it on the surface before. It still needs a response process.

Teacher Mei softened her heart, stretched out her hand and said with a smile, "now we really shake hands and make peace?"

Chu Xiao held out her hand. She pondered for a few seconds and took back her hand: "that's not true."

Miss Mei saw her little hand pull back: "??"

Chu Xiaoyi walked around the door for a long time. He didn't know what his sister and teacher were talking about. It took so long. He also peeped and found that the two people gathered to discuss, and the atmosphere was not tense and confusing.

After a long time, Chu Xiaoxiao finally came out of the classroom and could follow Chu Xiaoyi home. Chu Xiaoyi was confused: "what are you talking about? It will take so long?"

Chu Xiaoyi: how can it be like a century if peace or talks fail in an instant?

Chu Xiaoxiao said solemnly, "teacher Mei and I checked grammar on our mobile phone in the classroom and finally reached an agreement on the issue."

Chu Xiaoyi: "..." it's hard to be your teacher.

In order to solve the problems left over by history, teacher Mei madly downloaded the dictionary app in the classroom and discussed the dispute points between the two sides with various materials. The two finally reached a compromise on grammar, which was a real handshake.

Chu Xiaoyi put her pocket in one hand and led her out with the other: "are you and the teacher all right?"

Chu Xiao glanced at him and said faintly, "it's all right."

Chu Xiaoyi: will you invite parents if you have nothing to do? Now you're talking hard again?

However, it is the best situation for Chu Xiaoxiao and Mei to get back together. As long as the knot in Chu Xiaoxiao's heart is untied, the bad mood will not last too long and will soon disappear, just like Chu Xiaoyi. Now he occasionally thinks of the male teacher, leaving only a trace of emotion about the past, and he can still stride forward.

Chu Xiaoxiao just learned the feedback skills. She thought carefully and said, "brother, in fact, I like you a little now."

Chu Xiaoyi's attitude towards her mood has changed, but she seems to have never given feedback and always resisted.

She just understood the importance of response from teacher Mei. She simply made up for it now and stressed: "but only a little like..."

Chu Xiaoyi saw that the little thing tilted his head and made careful gestures. He felt some soft touch in his heart. He felt both angry and funny. He simply held her in his arms, deliberately shook the little man in the air, smiled and threatened, "a little bit? A little bit?"

Chu Xiaoyi: it's a dead duck. I can't cure you?

Chu Xiao was hugged by his brother bear and was almost out of breath. She felt each other's joy and was forced to experience the human flesh roller coaster. Her little face was angry and shouted angrily: "I said I like it a little! Don't respond to me so much!"

Chu Xiaoxiao: I only like you a little. Please don't like me too much! I can't bear it!

Chu Xiaoxiao suddenly felt that teacher Mei's response style was very good, and Chu Xiaoyi's violent style was unbearable. It was too wild!