Chapter 236

Fang Tianxing knows that she really repents. Most of the time, people don't make mistakes intentionally. Because of the lack of cognition, they make wrong choices at the juncture of life. It is clear that there is a chance to change life, but they can only let the chance slip away.

People's pain comes from themselves. Many times we can face the crossroads in our life. Every time we don't know where to go. Once you choose the road, you can't go back.

It takes a great price to make a new choice. Once we set foot on the road, we have to pay a great price when we want to go back. The risk of going back and the uncertainty of the future will make us anxious and confused, and we don't know how to balance to get the best way.

In fact, people's anxiety does not come from facing the reality, but from the aversion to the risk of uncertainty. Just as we all like to contact familiar things and familiar processes, many people are reluctant to leave even if they feel boring.

Because to leave means to face new things, to re learn, re adapt, and constantly overcome the difficulties in the process, until all new skills and new thinking have become habits, and you are in a new balance, that is, a new comfort zone.

Even if we can see the development of an event in the future, remember that it's a process of ebb and flow, because the more prominent the situation of this opportunity is, the more successful people there are, the less growth dividend we will be left with.

People are always anxious about not being able to succeed. Meaningless anxiety can't help us solve any problems, on the contrary, it will greatly consume our spirit and will. Directional anxiety can help you to make continuous improvement and try. In the process of practice, your experience ability will grow. At the same time, whether it is to capture long-term value or short-term trend, your cognition will also be strengthened.

She realized that it was her choice. There is a choice, and there is no choice, this is two things. In her past understanding, there was no concept of choice in this matter. She can't see the opportunity of choice, but thinks that life has made the choice for her. Everything is forced by life. There is no other way.

Since she chose to accept her fate and was coerced forward by life, she would know that she had weighed the pros and cons. At that time, she made the decision herself out of her own interests and after consideration of the results. In life, she is not the victim of life, but a player. When she is faced with the plot branch, she chooses a more favorite plot direction, and the later story development can only be borne by herself.

In many people's world, there is no self. He has too many responsibilities, and most of the time he lives for others. Many people choose to go to college in order to fulfill their parents' wishes, find a job in order to live a good life, work hard to save money in order to get married, and get married in order to give an account to their girlfriends.

It is people's good wish that people should be equal. It is true that people are born unequal. People should work hard towards their goals, but they should also accept the reality.

In order to escape from the pain of reality, people seek entertainment activities to escape from the pain. Shuangwen invents all kinds of adventures, which makes people dream of becoming the bodyguard of a beautiful woman. The president Qian Jin falls in love with me. All kinds of illusions are full of crazy desires, but he refuses to let people really face life.

Those shuangwen intentionally or unintentionally hide the key points in the real events, only tell the anecdotes that are most conducive to the spread, and bring sensory stimulation to people. If readers unconditionally accept these stories and principles, they will only bring wrong cognition, and can not have the positive power to change their fate.

Fang Tianxing constantly thinks about what his literature should bring to the readers. His writing should be like a breeze, without any substance paralyzing people's nerves. It can make people feel at ease, abandon wrong ideas, start from life, take a good look at himself, and then think about the truth of life and find a suitable development path, Face life bravely.

In fact, the way out of people's predicament has long existed. Now we can't see it because we haven't changed. Only by changing ourselves can we see the world we haven't seen before. Find the right direction to work hard, give up a lot of things or take a certain risk to do it, and take a good chance.

If you don't go out of your comfort zone, you'll never have a chance. If you go out of your comfort zone, you'll have a chance to work hard. It's likely that I've been working hard for a long time, but it's getting worse and worse. It's not as good as comfort zone. Are you ready to accept the price and try?

In this world, all the information you can access is telling you stories in a hidden way. The real truth is very simple, no one can predict the future in any era, we can only live in the present. Standing in the present, we can only try our best to ensure that we are in a positive cycle. The more we are away from reality, the more powerless we will be.

When a person falls into the sea, the first thing to do is to strive for breath. Facing the ruthlessness of fate, everyone will make different choices.

Fang Tianxing was particularly impressed by the fact that when a child came into the world, his parents were chased and killed, and they had nothing to offer. His life was very difficult, and even it was very difficult to survive.

In the following years, the family had no air conditioning or heating, relied on fans in summer and coal burning in winter, and never stopped work. Although life is very difficult, but they are not willing to let their children bear the hardships of life, do their best to protect her, let him grow up smoothly.

They live in a dilapidated place with many inconveniences. Suddenly one day, their parents moved with their children. Their parents saved money for a new place to live in. Although it's still very remote, it's much better than before.

Born to understand what you really need, think about the success theory advocated every day in various online media. All kinds of business praise each other, consumption upgrade, personal improvement, is to live in the virtual world, brush the sense of existence, worry about other people's lives all day long. Or live in the real world, work hard, change the reality of the situation.

Fang Tianxing is the young child. For a moment, I felt that the real effort and diligence is to live a down-to-earth life and change life step by step.

In this era of information explosion, many people become vain, and their eyes are always above the top. When you are feeling, others are working. When you stay up late and waste your time, people are also working. The way out for ordinary people is what you want.

Down to earth on the line, but you have to clearly know the road you can take, the road is feasible. Instead of other people's way, unrealistic way.

For those ordinary life, Fang Tianxing has no praise, but no anger.