Chapter 290

"Mengyan, what's the most important thing between lovers?" Zhao Ying didn't return to her, but asked like this.

"The most important thing between lovers? Is it to love each other?" Chen Mengyan asked back.

"No, loving each other is just a short-lived passion. After the passion, conflicts will come." Zhao Ying shook her head and said: "The most important thing between lovers is mutual trust! You don't trust Yang Ming first, so you give Yang Ming Ming's escapades created opportunity."

"..." Chen Mengyan was silent, yes, what Zhao Ying said was indeed reasonable. If I didn't distrust Yang Ming at the beginning, Yang Ming wouldn't be unhappy. Even if Yang Ming went on a trip, and I talked to him on the phone every day, it would be impossible for him to go and find some lady with Zhang Bing!

Seeing that Chen Mengyan stopped talking, Zhao Ying continued: "Mengyan, the incident has already happened, what you are thinking about now is not how to face it, but how to escape, or in other words, how to find a way to get rid of the women around Yang Ming. Drive away, you want to monopolize him, don't you?"

"I..." Chen Mengyan felt a little embarrassed when Zhao Ying broke her thoughts.

"Hehe, originally, your thoughts are correct. After all, people are selfish. Not only you, I also think that I will be the only one I love in the future, but some things don't happen according to our ideas. "Zhao Ying continued: "For example, the girl named Lin Zhiyun, if she forgave Yang Ming and accepted Yang Ming, you should be happy for her. After all, it was Yang Ming's mistake. I have this obligation to make up for it! If you blindly stop him and don't want him to do this, I don't think you will be happy even if you get Yang Ming and become his only one!"

"Why?" Chen Mengyan wondered.

"First of all, Yang Ming will hold a grudge against your actions. Even if he doesn't say anything on the surface, he will definitely have a grudge against you in his heart. In this way, on the surface, you have Yang Ming alone on the surface, but no one can guarantee that, In this way, Yang Ming's love for you will be even deeper, and I dare say that you are not as much as he divides his love for you on average. Moreover, this situation probably won't last long, and the relationship between the two of you will be It will be completely broken." Zhao Ying said: "If you forgive Yang Ming's mistakes and actively help him make up for them, he will feel guilty for you, and at this time, he will treat you better!"

"However, the love that originally belonged to me alone is now divided into several shares. I still feel a little uncomfortable..." Chen Mengyan hesitated. But it was obvious that she had listened to Zhao Ying's words.

"How many shares? Are these novels?" Zhao Ying smiled and said, "Let's give a simple example. You have parents, grandparents, and grandparents. Does your love for them conflict? Are you putting your Has the love for Dad been assigned to Grandpa? Or the love for Grandma has been assigned to your mother?"

"This..." Chen Mengyan was startled, as if she had figured out something.

"Hehe, for another example, if you have a younger sister, can you say that after you have a younger sister, you will distribute your love for your parents to the younger sister?" Zhao Ying said with a smile: "This is not a conflict, you are I'm bothering people."

"That's true." Chen Mengyan nodded, agreeing with Zhao Ying's statement.

"And these are not the main ones. Lin Zhiyun is not the crux of the problem. The crux of the problem now is that girl named Lan Ling!" Zhao Ying said, "Yang Ming has fallen into her heart, and you also know that if Yang Ming The consequences of leaving her! If you force Yang Ming to leave Lan Ling, it is tantamount to forcing him to die! Chen Mengyan, why are you always so stubborn, can't you see such a simple cause and effect? ​​Even if Yang Ming does it for you , if you want to leave Lanling, you should try your best to stop him! At that time, Yang Ming thought that he would die from the heart attack, so what's the use of arguing about it? Yang Ming is gone, what do you want? ?”

Zhao Ying's words hit Chen Mengyan's heart like a heavy hammer, yes, how could she let Yang Ming leave Lan Ling, it would be the same as letting him die!

"I won't say anything else, you are a smart kid, you should know how to make choices, don't you?" Zhao Ying patted Chen Mengyan on the shoulder and said, "If you like him and love him, then you should be tolerant! Love is not selfish, love should be tolerant! This is the true meaning of love! Selfish love will never last long, only with a heart that tolerates each other, can two people grow old together, right?"

"Thank you, Sister Ying, I will think about it carefully..." Chen Mengyan nodded thoughtfully, "My mood is much better now."

"That's good, well, it's almost time, go to class, I'm going to class too." Zhao Ying said.

"Well, sister Ying, can you tell me your mobile phone number, if I have any unhappy things, I will talk to you." Chen Mengyan asked.

"Okay, just remember, my mobile phone number is 136xxxx1099." Zhao Ying said.

"I wrote it down." Chen Mengyan took out her phone and entered the number. Seeing the mobile phone Yang Ming bought for him, he couldn't help but feel a little sore, thinking of the past.

After Chen Mengyan left, Zhao Ying also breathed a very weak sigh of relief, leaning on the bench, a little at a loss. I finally came to Songjiang Engineering University and became a student. In this way, the difference in identity with him was completely eliminated. However, new troubles came again. What Zhao Ying thought at the beginning was to see if she could replace Chen Mengyan. After all, she and Chen Mengyan had similar starting lines.

Initially, Zhao Ying chatted with Chen Mengyan for the purpose of getting some information about Yang Ming from her, but she didn't expect Chen Mengyan to tell her such a complicated situation!

Now I am not only facing Chen Mengyan, but Chen Mengyan, Lan Ling, and Lin Zhiyun! And first of all, Lan Ling, Zhao Ying can't beat her no matter what! Even if she could, Zhao Ying would not do such a stupid thing!

She is a very sensible person who knows how to advance and retreat. Since Lan Ling and Yang Ming are inseparable, there is no need to do useless work. As for Lin Zhiyun, based on Zhao Ying's understanding of Yang Ming's character, Yang Ming would never ignore her!

So, it seemed that Zhao Ying was trying to persuade Chen Mengyan, but rather she was trying to persuade herself to maintain a normal mind. Things have happened, it's time to change tactics.

To be honest, Zhao Ying once wanted to give up, but thinking of how hard she had worked so hard to become Yang Ming's classmate, Zhao Ying didn't want her efforts to be in vain!

However, now it seems that what happened to Chen Mengyan is not good, so Zhao Ying has to reconsider. Although she said that love is tolerant, Zhao Ying's heart is also bleeding. This Yang Ming is really too carefree!

Now things can only take one step at a time. Zhao Ying knew that the relationship between Chen Mengyan and Yang Ming was not yet clear, so it was not a wise choice for her to get involved like this.

Although Chen Mengyan's situation is not good, she is still Yang Ming's real girlfriend. Even if she has no choice but to accept Lin Zhiyun and Lan Ling, she will never accept herself again!

So Zhao Ying decided to wait and see before talking. By the way, she calmly considered her relationship with Yang Ming. Is it worth it for her to be so reckless?

It is true that Yang Ming's self-sacrifice to protect her a few times had a great impact on Zhao Ying's mind. Zhao Ying was sure that she had fallen in love with him! But the key question still depends on Yang Ming's intention.

Zhao Ying regretted it a little now. If she didn't have so many worries that night, would she and Yang Ming be together now?

It seems that sometimes, people really can't be too scruples, otherwise how can there be a good saying, people are shameless, the world is invincible!

Zhao Ying shook her head and went to class.

Yang Ming also returned to school. The first thing he did when he returned to school was to call Zhao Ying, but unfortunately, Zhao Ying's mobile phone number was shut down!

In fact, after Zhao Ying was admitted to graduate school, she changed her mobile phone card. After all, she is a student now and is ready to start over. But Yang Ming didn't know.

Yang Ming hung up the phone and thought, is it true that Zhao Ying is really a graduate student here? So why not connect with yourself? Yang Ming decided to go to Zhao Ying's residence to have a look in person at night.

Back in the dormitory, Yang Ming turned on the laptop again, and hurriedly studied the homework that Fang Tian left for him. But unfortunately, except for yesterday's gambling teaching CD, the other CDs are very esoteric and difficult to understand. For example, Yang Ming couldn't understand a lot of technical terms in the CD about first aid for injuries that he was watching now.

There is no way, Yang Ming can only look at it for a while, then stop, search for relevant information on the Internet, then look at it for a while, and continue to search. After repeating this, Yang Ming only watched a tenth of the progress of the CD when Zhang Bing and Tian Donghua came back!