Chapter 1595

Rong Yijing openly takes ding ding to attend such an occasion. When people ask him, he has no taboo. Especially Rong Zhuo and Ou Yangqing are also here. It's hard not to let people think about the gold content of Ding Ding's girlfriend's identity. Is this the default of the family?

There are many people present today. Everyone knows Rong Yijing, but Ding Ding only knows Qin Zhan. When she is around Rong Yijing, everyone greets her, which makes her feel more pressure. Fortunately, Ouyang Qing passes by and says, "Ding Ding."

Ding Ding turned his head and Ouyang Qing waved to her. Ding Ding went over and Ouyang Qing said in a low voice, "accompany me to other places. There are too many people."

Ding Ding doesn't like too many people, and he is very nervous to get along with Ouyang Qing alone, but he has no choice. Ouyang Qing winks at Rong Yijing and takes ding ding to another place.

On the way, Ouyang Qing said, "ah Jing made you angry?"

Ding Ding heart suddenly, I do not know where the words come from, nervous back: "no..."

Ouyang Qing said, "Why are your eyes swollen?"

Ding Ding didn't have the courage to say that Uncle Li had passed away like Rong Yijing. She was trying to figure out how to whitewash Taiping. Ouyang Qing beside her said as usual: "don't make excuses for him. I know him better than you."

Ding Ding shook his head: "really not... Brother Jing is very good to me."

Ouyang Qing gossips: "how did he come after you?"

Ding Ding hung his eyes and was silent for a moment. "I'm sorry, auntie. It's not Jingge who chased me, but I like him."

Ding Ding doesn't want to and can't lie in front of Ouyang Qing, otherwise she will feel that she can't lift her head.

There was no accident on Ouyang Qing's face. She was just curious: "where do you like him?"

Ding Ding couldn't figure out if Ouyang Qing had any implication. Ben Fen Fen replied: "the people of Jingge are very good."

Ouyang Qing said, "he should be a good friend and a good big brother. When he is a boyfriend, do you still think he is good?"

Ding Ding nodded, but did not speak.

A man came up and said hello to Ouyang Qing. Ouyang Qing responded and asked, "this is..."

Ouyang Qing Da Fang Fang's introduction: "a Jing's girlfriend."

Woman pick eyebrow, even accident, "ah Jing girlfriend... Good, look at sensible."

Both sides are polite, Ouyang Qing with Ding Ding continue to move forward, Ding Ding heart for a long time can not be calm, because more and more can not eat Ouyang Qing's attitude towards her, she was originally not smart, a nervous, more difficult to think.

Ouyang Qing took the initiative to say: "is it uncomfortable to chat with me?"

Ding Ding shook his head: "no..."

Ouyang Qing said: "don't think about it. I won't interfere in your young people's affairs, and I have nothing to do with it. Don't be nervous. I'm just afraid that you will be uncomfortable in front of so many strangers. I want to take you out for a walk."

Ding Ding: "thank you, auntie."

Ouyang Qing: "don't be so unfamiliar, just like before."

Ding Ding was silent for a moment and summoned up courage: "I'm sorry, aunt, I cheated you before, and I haven't told you the truth."

Ouyang Qing said quietly: "ah Jing told me that you've been together for a long time. I'm really surprised."

Ding Ding's guilt doubled: "I like brother Jing unilaterally. At first he didn't know, but later he knew..."

Ouyang Qing looked at Dingding and found that her face, ears and even neck were pink. She said in a voice, "you don't have to apologize to me for any reason. No matter when you are together, who chases whom, who likes whom first, there is no limit between you. I'm just very surprised."

The more Ouyang Qing is like this, the more uncomfortable Ding Ding's heart is: "you asked me several times before if I had a boyfriend, I dare say, I'm sorry, aunt, I'm really sorry."

Ouyang Qing gently patted ding ding on the back, "it's OK, who has a few secrets, there is no don't want to say, when I was young, I lied a lot more than you."

The touch of the back made Ding Ding's eyes suddenly warm, and all his words were fermenting in his heart.

There are no passers-by where they go. Ouyang Qing and Ding Ding chat. They all talk about the little things that happened after she fell in love with Rong Yijing. Ding Ding doesn't want to cheat Ouyang Qing any more. What they return is the truth, including meeting several times a month and where they go to play when they have time.

Ouyang Qing didn't seem to exclude her from being with Rong Yijing, which makes Ding Ding Ding quietly relax. The next step after relaxing is to go further. She adds oil to herself for a long time at the bottom of her heart, and finally finds an opportunity to say: "aunt, you must know brother Jing very well. What kind of person do you think he likes best?"

Ouyang Qing side head, "do you think he does not like you enough?"

Ding Ding trembled, not eager to deny it, but instinctively said: "no, we have known each other for a long time, but we really spend very little time together. I want to be better."

Ouyang Qing: "you are already very good."

Ding Ding: "I know that I still have many shortcomings. Some I can see and some I can't see. Maybe brother Jing is too embarrassed to say so directly. I want to change it."

Ouyang Qing: "it's not that you don't know what's good and what's bad about yourself. If you want to be better for yourself, of course you will find out what your shortcomings are. Now you want to be better for others. What if he doesn't like you to be too gentle and sensible? Do you want to be sharp and tricky? "

Ding Ding was speechless when he said this. What flashed in his mind, just like watching flowers in the fog.

No matter what Ding Ding thought, Ouyang Qing said to herself, "in fact, I asked you to come out today. In addition to chatting with you, there are also some words I can only say to you alone."

Ding Ding said: "you say."

Ouyang Qing looked ahead and said, "I don't have a daughter. I always wanted to recognize you as my daughter. Now you choose to be with ah Jing. Your identity is different, but I still want to say these words."

"Everyone is a woman. As an elder, I have some advice from past people to share with you. Always put yourself first. It's not that you don't care about the feelings of people around you. It's just that you care more about your own feelings. Don't be afraid to offend anyone, and don't be afraid to lose anyone, because you are yourself first, and you are other people's family, friends and lovers."

"For the people you care about, you can tolerate them, but you don't need to tolerate them, because what tolerance brings is not gratitude, but aggravation."

"And what I feel most deeply over the years is that we used to like someone so much that we couldn't see a lot of things clearly. In our ignorance, we blame others and ourselves. If we can't change each other, we try our best to change ourselves, thinking that if we do well enough, the relationship will be stable enough. As a result, we become less and less like ourselves, and the key relationship may not be stable, Then the next step is to start to doubt whether I'm not good enough or the other party's sense of security is not enough“

"Everyone has different understandings of whether the sense of security is given by himself or by the other party. My experience is that if a person keeps me in a state of insecurity for a long time, I will isolate this sense of panic as soon as possible. When there is only one person left, I will find that I may tear my heart and lungs, but I am no longer afraid of losing it."

Ding Ding is cold all over. I don't know if Ouyang Qing knows what happened between her and Rong Yijing, or if it's really a coincidence. In a word, every word is stuck in her heart. It doesn't hurt, but it can't go away.