Chapter 312

"I, I don't know what I will be like in the future. I don't know if I will live with him, just like he and lawyer sun -" Su Fan said.

Qin Yiqiu shook his head and said, "it's different."

"I don't mean how Huo Shuqing is. It's me. I don't have confidence. After all, lawyer sun is such a capable and excellent woman. If I marry Huo Shuqing, I can't compete with lawyer sun. In fact, I used to do this when I was in Jiangcheng. When I think of lawyer sun, I feel very inferior. I don't know what kind of feelings Huo Shuqing has for me. And now, when we want to get married, I, "Su Fan said with an unnatural smile. She put her hair behind her ears and held the coffee cup in her hands for a moment." I feel more inferior. I can't compare with lawyer sun. If people like lawyer sun can divorce, then I -- "

"Xuechu, do you know why I said that you are the person Shuqing is looking for?" Qin Yiqiu interrupts her and says.

Su fan shook his head.

"Shuqing has a strong personality. He is a very important person. Although he has changed a little over the years, it's hard to change what is in his heart. The stronger you are, the more lonely you are. Although we friends often chat and play together, after all, friends can't replace the people who accompany him. Sun man and his personality are so similar that both of them will have problems sooner or later. And you -- "Qin Yiqiu said, and Su fan laughed bitterly.

"Because I'm weak and have no opinion, so he --" Su fan murmured.

"Did I say something wrong again?" Qin Yiqiu said as if to himself.

Sufan smiles at her.

"In fact, xuechu, why do you care why he loves you? He loves you, this is the fact, he is willing to wait for you, this is the fact. Life in the world, live too clearly, only more distress Qin Yiqiu said.

Su fan is silent.

"Sometimes, when you think about it, the relationship between husband and wife is very complicated. It feels more complicated than any relationship in the world." Qin Yiqiu said.

"Why?" Su fan asked.

"Maybe it's because there are too many things involved, emotional, interest and other aspects. Well, it's like casting a sword. Well, the relationship between husband and wife is like casting a sword. In order to build a peerless sword, we must first have good materials. The temperament and interests of the two people must match each other, that is, they must have a common language. This point could have been found and cultivated in love before marriage, but now many people pay too much attention to external conditions when choosing a spouse, and don't care whether the other party's internal quality matches with themselves, because external things ignore the most important things in marriage and rush into marriage. Married to find a lot of problems. Er, after selecting the materials, we are going to start building this sword. The most troublesome thing is this process. Life is like this. After marriage, two people's environment will become much more complicated. Even when they first fall in love, they match each other. At this stage, problems will emerge one after another. Because the marriage of Chinese people is never a matter of two people, but two families living together. There are too many factors affecting both sides, family, work and children. How to control the temperature becomes difficult. " Qin Yiqiu said and took a sip of coffee.

"I've never talked about this topic with anyone. I, sister Yiqiu, just like a marriage expert, really said Sufan with a smile.

Qin Yiqiu shook his head and said, "I just have been observing other people's lives for so many years and summarizing my own experience. As time goes on, I have more ideas."

Su fan nodded.

"Living is actually a process of two people running in with each other. To put it more cruelly, it is also a process of two people playing games with each other. The relationship between husband and wife is so complicated. Two people are partners, but they are opponents at the same time. So I think two people with complementary personalities are the happiest together. Of course, the premise is that two people should love each other, love each other's inner quality, and things on the outside are easy to lose their charm. You and Shuqing, you two complement each other. For example, your cousin and I complement each other. I'm impatient. He's slow and patient. " Qin Yiqiu smiles and says.

"Yes, the personalities of Huo Shuqing and I are totally different. However, in this way, I always feel that I can't get to his heart. I know he loves me and I love him, but it seems that there is always a membrane between us. He can see through me at a glance, but I don't understand him. That's how it used to be. I know that he has something in mind and that he is sad, but I can't do anything. " Su fan sighed.

Qin Yiqiu thought about it and said, "xuechu, do you know how my parents live their life?"

Sufan looks at her.

"Outsiders think they are a very harmonious couple, and I feel the same way. For so many years, my father worked and my mother was in charge of everything at home. But now, I always feel that they are such a happy couple? " Qin Yiqiu said, "for my father's work, my mother sacrificed all her hobbies and gave up all her dreams. Everything she did was for my father's sake. No matter what she does, she always puts my father first. "

Su fan thought of Luo Wenyin, as if Luo Wenyin is the same, although she and Luo Wenyin do not get along for a long time, but the two years of intermittent contact, it seems, is the same.

"Many people admire my mother and think that she is very successful because her husband has a successful career and respects her. At least, at their age and position, she is really enviable. However, sometimes I think, for the sake of my husband, I have completely sacrificed myself to become her husband's assistant. Is this a woman's happiness? " Qin Yiqiu said.

"But if your mother doesn't take your father as the center, I'm afraid there will be a lot of problems." Sufan thought about it and said.

Qin Yiqiu laughed and said, "in that case, they don't know what they will be like for a long time. Even if I don't get divorced, my father has many wives and children outside. "

"In fact, Secretary Qin is really a good man and has a good example. From you and Yifei, we can see the way of Sufan.

Qin Yiqiu nodded and said, "my father has set a good example for Yifei in this respect. As a result, the guy will not take the initiative to fall in love when he is 30 years old." Words export, Qin Yiqiu looking at Su fan, way, "this topic, we jump over, don't mention that guy."

Su fan nodded.

"I think that my doubts about my mother may be due to the concept of our two generations! Our generation, too much emphasis on self needs, emotional needs, material needs. In fact, it's also the progress of society and the progress of people, right? " Qin Yiqiu said, Su fan nodded in agreement.

"But if people pay too much attention to themselves, it's easy to ignore the people around them, whether they are husbands or children. So, in this respect, people like my mother who put her husband in the first place are happier. Perhaps, only she knows whether she is happy or not. At least she feels quite satisfied. " Qin Yiqiu said.

Su fan thought about it, and then Qin Yiqiu said, "I think it's happiness to have what you want! It depends on what everyone wants. Maybe what your mother wants is the present state of life, so she feels happy. And if you live the same life as her, because your focus is different from her, even if you are in the same state as her, you will not feel happy. "

Qin Yiqiu laughed and said, "you're right. That's what I think." "So, xuechu, don't doubt yourself, don't feel inferior or anything. You think about what you want. Do you get what you want? If not, do you want to get what you want. Life is fair to everyone, at least the opportunities are the same, the only difference is that some people seize the opportunity, some people do not. You and Shuqing are both good at the beginning. You are two people of perfectmatch. You love each other. As long as you love each other, no matter what problems you have in the future, you will be willing to solve them. "

Su fan nodded, smiling.

"When Shu Qing and sun man came to the last step, they made a lot of mistakes before. They didn't manage their marriage and treat each other with heart. When they had problems, they also dealt with them passively. And you and Shuqing, it won't be like that. So, don't worry, xuechu, everything will be fine! " Qin Yiqiu encouraged.

"Well, I see. Thank you. After chatting with you for a while, I feel that my heart is much more relaxed. It's really much easier. 1 Sufan said with a smile.

Qin Yiqiu also laughed and said: "many people have premarital phobia, not just you. I'm happy to help you, too! After all, we're a family now, aren't we? "

"Yes, the whole family is gone." Sufan said with a smile.

Two people sat chatting for a while, read Qing to wake up, three people continue to stroll.

Soon, Qin Yiqiu received a call from her husband, saying that he had already reserved a place for dinner in the evening. He also sent a text message to Huo Shuqing.

Soon, I will see him! Su fan thought.

It's said that people who are in love with each other will have the feeling of disappearing one day. They all have children. How can they still have such a feeling?

When the children are out of school, Qin Yiqiu drives Sufan and Nianqing to pick up Rao Rao at school, and then goes directly to the dining place.

Soon, Qin Yiqiu's husband Luo Zhigang arrived. As soon as he saw Su fan, he went over and said with a smile, "I didn't expect that you are the sister I've been looking for

Su fan looked at him with a smile. Luo Zhigang picked up Nianqing and said with a smile, "now I can't call uncle, but uncle, little guy!"

"Niannian has an uncle," Nianqing said stubbornly.

"Is she talking about Zeng Quan?" Qin Yiqiu asks Su fan, and Su fan nods.

"This is my uncle, too. Niannian, I'm your aunt, right?" Qin Yiqiu said to Nianqing.

Nianqing looks at her mother and nods before calling Luo Zhigang uncle. Luo Zhigang laughs and kisses Nianqing's face.

"Well, your beard hurts the child." Qin Yiqiu said to her husband.

"When Rao Rao is so big, doesn't Shuqing often deliberately tie Rao Rao's face?" Luo Zhigang said with a smile.

"This is your niece. You can't report to your niece about the feud between you and Shuqing.

Luo Zhigang seemed to have a sudden realization and said, "my wife is right. Nianqing is one of our own. She almost made a mistake in the contradiction between ourselves and the enemy."

At this time, Sufan's mobile phone rings, and Huo Shuqing's phone comes. You can search Baidu for the latest chapter of "Uncle chatting about jiutao novels "! This novel has been translated by www.novelhall.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stolen our translation.