Chapter 321

(fifth watch)

She was stronger than he thought. Although she was always crying, she didn't say a word in front of the pain caused by oxytocin these two days. Occasionally, she would close her eyes and hold his hand tightly. The tangled eyebrows showed the great pain she was suffering.

He didn't say anything, just let her hold his hand like that. No matter how he is advised to go home, he will not go back. He knew that he was the one she needed most. And the only thing he can do for her is company.

When the child came back, the family went around the child, but he didn't pay any attention to it. He only glanced at it when they told him to go and have a look at the child.

Listen, when we discuss who a child looks like, he thinks it's funny. At such a small age, where can we see who he looks like?

Maybe his wife's pain distracted him. In short, after the pain was far away from Fang Xiaoyou, he began to pay attention to his children. Looking at her breast-feeding with her baby in her arms, Comrade Xia Yuchen saw a halo on a living person for the first time.

Isn't this just like Jesus with the baby in her arms?

It turns out that motherhood is like this!

In a word, Xia Yuchen has been in a trance since the baby came to the ground. He didn't have a real feeling until he saw her holding the baby to nurse.

"They look like they are!" She said, looking at him with a smile.

He looked at it carefully, nodded and said, "do children look the same?"

"It should be different." She stood by the crib and looked at the two sleeping kids. "Who do you think they are more like? You or me? "

"It's so small, where can I see it? Let's wait a little longer! " He held out his hand and looked at the child together.

There was a light smile on her face, and he turned to look at her——

Her face looked fatter than before, so did her body. However, he always felt that what she had more was not fat, but other things.

"Thank you so much!" His voice was very light, but she could hear it clearly. She raised her face and gave him a smile, then looked down at the child.

"Is the wound still painful?" He asked.

She nodded.

His chin rubbed gently on her forehead.

The white curtain swung gently, and the sunset came in, leaving two long shadows on the wall.

All of a sudden, his mobile phone rang, breaking the peace. He quickly closed the door and went out to the living room. With a slight frown on her brow, she went back to the bed and lay down.

Sure enough, after a few minutes, he came in and said he had something urgent to go out.

She looked at him and he gave her a kiss on the forehead and said, "it's about work. Although I'm on vacation these days, I have something urgent to do and I have to go. "

"Well, you go! I'm fine, mom. They're coming. Just call Sister Li in. " She said that he went out and called his sister-in-law, who was chatting with people in the corridor.

This is the first time since the baby was born that he left her. Although she knew he was busy, she always wanted to spend more time with him, especially now.

The babies are still sleeping.

After leaving the hospital and returning to Xia's home, the babies' room is on the second floor, next to Xia Yuchen's bedroom. This is a temporary arrangement, Tan Guiying said. After the end of the new year, they all moved to Lianhua Lake. The house there is a three story small building, which is bigger than here and more spacious. Fang Xiaoyou didn't say anything, because she heard from her mother that Tan Guiying had already found someone to clean up the new house over there. There was a special baby room. Before the age of three, let two children live in a room, kindergarten began to separate.

After leaving the hospital, Fang Xiaoyou began to take confinement. However, Xia Yuchen didn't finish his vacation and began to work. She didn't know what he was busy with, but occasionally she would listen to what Xia Yuchen said to her father at dinner, and she didn't understand what it was. Because it's about his work, she won't ask. She just looks after the children with her mother and Yuesao.

Every day, around the child, although only to feed the child, but she felt that her energy is not enough, all day long dizzy. Looking at the child crying, she can't coax her. She can't leave everything to others, can she? Perhaps, many women are more or less some postpartum depression, she is the same. Eager for him to talk to her, don't let her always face the children and family. But when he came home, he just went to see how the child was. Then he asked her how the day was and what she had done. Then he went to bed. In fact, the two children are good. Apart from eating and sleeping, they don't have much time to cry.

During this period of time, she did not know what he was busy with. She wanted to share many things with him, but he was not there.

For such a thing, she can only say that Xia Yuchen is too poor to participate in the child's growth. It's really his loss. However, how many people have a lot of time with their children?

As time goes by, the children become more and more active, laughing and amusing. But Fang Xiaoyou also because two children's appetite increases, cannot feed again, has to add the milk powder. The family hired a nanny to help with the children, and Fang Xiaoyou's focus of life gradually began to shift.

Gradually, the children will climb. On the ground of their new home, the climbing competition between the two kids is repeated day by day.

Fang Xiaoyou these two children, the boy is the elder brother, the girl is the younger sister. At the beginning, my sister climbed well and my brother always lost. However, Xia Yuchen doesn't seem to like that boys are so backward. If they have nothing to do, they let their son climb and force them to cry all the time. Other people advised him not to do so, but he didn't listen at all. As a result, he was scolded by his father.

Starting with his son's climbing, Xia Yuchen always emphasizes his right as a father. Unfortunately, there are people with higher status in the family who are opposite to him. As a result, the father's status is challenged again and again.

On the issue of children's education, the family is not always able to agree. Xia Zhenhai is very strict with his son, but when he comes to Sun Tzu, all kinds of principles are completely invalid. Therefore, there are always disputes between father and son for their children.

As for this, although Fang Xiaoyou does not agree with Xia Yuchen's almost inhuman management style, he also disagrees with his father-in-law and mother-in-law's doting on children. She always thinks that although children can't understand adults' words, over time, they will get information from adults' attitude towards themselves, thus forming children's temper. Therefore, she believes that children should be properly disciplined. For these two little things, although they are still small now, human beings are also animals, which will produce conditioned reactions to the environment and then form memories. Even if they can't remember these things in the future, these memories will be rooted in their hearts and affect the formation of their character. Therefore, the baby also needs education, and can not blindly pet.

Perhaps, her idea is different from many people, and it is not likely to get the approval and support of others, but she thinks so and does so. However, in this family, it is difficult for her to have a place to speak. Looking at her husband's quarrel with her parents in law for the sake of her children, she had to be a peacemaker. What else can she do?

Sometimes, the two generations will argue so much because of their different views on education that Xia Zhenhai and his wife leave their new home to live in the old house, leaving their two new parents in a hurry.

"Oh, can't you not fight? If you can't persuade your father-in-law, she has to blame him.

"Can we not fight? What if a child has a bad habit? It's all our own trouble. Instead of having a headache in the future, it's better to discipline now! " He said.

"You are right, but the children are still young. Why are you so serious?" She said.

"You just don't have principles, your own children, or do more snacks yourself!" He grumbled.

She sighed and went to the yard to collect the child's clothes and diapers.

Where is it that she has no principles? She can't be the master of many things. What's the use of principles.

When she finished collecting her clothes, she went to the children's room on the first floor to see if the two children woke up.

Both of them woke up. She quickly picked up her daughter and peed. Seeing that something was wrong with her son, she called him to help. When he came, his son was impartial and just peed on his face.

In an instant, the face changed color.

"Go and wash it." She saw it, too, and said.

"Fortunately I didn't open my mouth." He laughed and sighed.

Men and women are different in many ways. Most of the time, women feel more about their children than men. Perhaps, this is the complex of pregnancy in October.

In the life of Xia Yuchen and Fang Xiaoyou, the same is true. Although Xia Yuchen also likes the two little guys very much, his feelings for children are far less than his wife's. Perhaps, his personality is like that, no matter who is warm up. No matter what he thinks in his heart, he just can't express his feelings, even for children.

Gradually, both of them were busy with their work, and their children began to grow up. Tan Guiying completely retreated and found a nanny to help with the children.

The growth of a child is a process full of surprises. However, as soon as the couple starts out at dawn, sometimes they go home at night and the child falls asleep. There is little communication with the child. Even on weekends, there won't be a lot of time. However, in order to urge their son and daughter-in-law to have more contact with their children, Xia Zhenhai and his wife stopped caring about their children at the weekend and went straight back to live in the old house. Even the nanny was taken off by them.

However, just taking care of children on weekends is enough to make Fang Xiaoyou and Xia Yuchen dizzy.