Chapter has a love story

The story comes from a reader.

The reader wrote his emotional experience in a book review area.

I won't repeat the details. The big words are too troublesome, which roughly means:

he has been in love with a girl for two years. The boys are ready to take the girls to see their parents, and also consider the stage of marriage. Everything was ready, but the girl finally broke up. Boys in the memories of a lot, keep a lot of girls to send gifts, very affectionate.

I believe that if I write hundreds of them, if I can retrieve a sincere feeling, it will be meaningful.

In addition, when a girl breaks up, it doesn't mean that she has to make up her mind. She's not a good girl, but she's gradually recognizing the reality. In love and reality made a measurement and thinking. This is a microcosm of the growth of women in modern society, whose essence is social reason.

Let me analyze:

although the boy didn't make it clear in the message, the reason for breaking up is obviously a real problem.

What practical problems, I guess, should be distance, economic strength, only these two points.

First of all, distance: long distance love often exists. Distance could have produced beauty because the other side is not used to it. Once this kind of unaccustomed is used to it, distance will produce distance and it will be difficult to maintain feelings. So, together, it becomes the best way to warm up and maintain feelings.

The problem lies in the three words "together". The wife's family does not agree with her daughter's marriage. She does not want to come. You do not want to go. There must be all of them. If you think it's up to her, give it a shot. To be honest, I got married first, and where I will be in the future. God knows, I don't know what I'm talking about now. If you don't want to think about it rationally, you are just trying to find reasons for yourself.

Besides the economic conditions: it depends on whether you have the courage to share weal and woe. Everyone's life is getting better and better. If you don't try her family's objection, how can you know? Men, when they are young, tend to be impulsive. When their thoughts are especially mature, impulsive behaviors are extremely difficult to produce and extremely rational.

To put it bluntly, money can be earned. One is to give up in front of you. The other is to see which one you want in the next 50 years?

If you can put it down at will, it's OK. If it's really emotional, it's impulsive. Lose you no loss, win you comfortable life. Don't spell it, you don't know you can be a madman.

One of the most profound problems I know about the old pig is that there are 10000 ways to solve it.

Finally, I would like to sigh that love in modern society is always defeated by these things. People will recognize more and more reality when they grow up. In fact, they just lack courage and courage to bet on the future. In fact, the problem is really not big. Whether it's the boy or the girl, it's the problem.

Someone accompanied by youth, who surprised whose time, who gentle whose years. How wonderful.

The premise is: you are really in love, otherwise, when I didn't say.

It's written in general, but I hope you can recognize the facts and not be destroyed by the poisonous chicken soup which is full of modern society.

Also, this boy, if there is any result, I hope you can turn to the reading support of the main station. At the same time, we ask the readers for a monthly ticket