"Well, I'll tell Dad all about it." Xia Xia said in a low voice: "I used to like brother Mo and brother Ruixi. After playing with them for a day, they didn't like me any more, and their friendship couldn't accommodate me.

A lot of children are like this. At the beginning, they all like me very much, but they don't know why they don't like me. I'm very sad

Lin Zhonghuai was stunned and his eyes flashed with heartache.

Five year old children have their own unique sensitivity and anxiety about who likes and dislikes themselves.

If you don't care, you won't always say it and tell yourself this as a secret.

Lin Zhonghuai's heart pumping, can't help but feel tight, his daughter in the end experienced what?

Xia Yuxi, the woman who gave birth to a child, didn't tell him, why can't she tell herself?

If he had known the existence of children earlier, Xia Xia might not have been so sensitive.

At the very least, he will share the responsibility with her.

Looking at her daughter, Lin Zhonghuai soft voice of the mouth to comfort her: "good child, can not afford to accommodate the friendship will not be long."

Xia Xia is very ignorant to stare at big eyes, the expression wants to be as serious as possible.

Lin Zhonghuai also looked into her eyes. He was serious and gentle: "if a person likes another person, he has to accommodate and tolerate his shortcomings. Only with tolerance can friendship last for a long time. "

Xia Xia or stare big eyes, looking at his father, seems to have a special worship of his father.

Her eyes, too, glowed with excitement.

"So, first of all, you should learn to accommodate and accommodate other people, so that others can accommodate you. The same treatment is based on fairness, not always on one side. And friendship is mutual. When you want others to accommodate you, others may also want you to accommodate others. Only in this way can fairness be achieved. Things based on fairness will last longer and more comfortable. "

Lin Zhonghuai doesn't know how much his daughter can understand. He just thinks that children's world should be positively educated.

He believed that as long as the adult's direction is right, the child will be able to understand and understand, and will not be wrong.

Sure enough, Xia Xia opened her big eyes, frowned and began to ponder.

She thought for a while and then looked up at Lin Zhonghuai and said sweetly, "Dad, you mean I didn't accommodate brother Mo and brother Ruixi, right?"

Lin Zhonghuai was slightly surprised that she understood what she meant.

"What do you think?" He asked with a smile.

"It seems so." Xia Xia was embarrassed to smile. "In fact, I just want them to accommodate me, so I didn't pay, or I didn't pay enough. I shouldn't be so selfish. I just want them to accompany me, ignoring that they are actually very tired. It seems that I'm really not right."

"Good summer." Lin Zhonghuai nodded happily, and her eyes were more gentle. The child understood and was so sensible. "You can figure it out, dad is really happy."

"It's dad who makes a good point." Xia Xia is very modest. "Sure enough, it's good to have a father. Although mommy loves me, she won't tell me so much truth. She can only lie to me."

Although I don't know how children get along with Xia Yuxi, Lin Zhonghuai can understand that it's not easy for a woman to have a child.

These years, she should have been a vagrant.

I saw it once in the United States, and there was no news after that. Jiangnan never went back.

Therefore, the bad in the forest believes that Xia Yuxi and her daughter's life is not stable.

"Your mom doesn't have time. Maybe she's under a lot of pressure." Lin Zhonghuai didn't speak ill of Xia Yuxi, but talked about the matter: "you should understand and understand your mother."

"Know dad." Xia Xia nodded, very serious.

"What's more, for Mo Mo and Ruixi, my father thinks it's you who scared them. Although dad doesn't know how you scared them, Xia Xia Xia can be a good child who understands others. I think everyone will like you from the bottom of his heart."

"Dad, although I think what you said is very reasonable, don't you think they are timid?" Xia Xia spread out his hands and curled his mouth: "the two boys are scared. How dare you

Lin Zhonghuai nodded. "It's a little bit of counseling, but it's the summer and summer that you brought. What should you do when you start?"

Xia Xia looked at Lin Zhonghuai and was puzzled, "Dad, I just think brother Mo and brother Ruixi are so timid. They are also stingy. Don't I just talk a little more? They dislike me all the time. "

"Well, Xia Xia, with the way you treat them, how long do you think you can last?"

Lin Zhonghuai is good at educating his daughter. He knows that education can't be done too quickly.

He also knew that he had been absent from the children's world for five years, and he had not given his children father's love. Now the children have any problems because they have failed to fulfill their responsibilities.Therefore, he felt deeply remorse for this. He thought that he should try his best to make up for his daughter in the future, and should shoulder the responsibility of educating his daughter. This is not in vain for him to be a father.

Xia Xia was asked.

She looks at Lin Zhonghuai.

"Transposition thinking, think about it, you are Mo Mo and Ruixi brother, what would you do?"

"Me?" Xia Xia thought for a while and said, "isn't it a very happy thing that someone chats with me? Why do they dislike my nagging

"Summer and summer." Lin Zhonghuai looked at the child and seriously said, "you want to talk and want someone to talk with you because you are lonely. However, Mo Mo and brother Ruixi don't necessarily feel lonely. They may not want to talk."

"If you don't speak, won't you be suffocated?" Xia Xia asked.

Lin Zhonghuai pondered, and then he said with a smile, "Dad gave you an idiom."

"What?"

"Silence is gold."

"I don't quite understand." Xia Xia shakes her head.

"Daughter, silence does not mean silence. The quiet life style is more valuable. Dad wants you to be a quiet, smart person. I hope you can think carefully when you say every word. Think twice before you act. "

Xia Xia frowned, half understanding.

"Dad just wants my daughter to have more high-quality words and less to blurt out, but I hope you can show off in your head." Lin Zhonghuai said, gently touched her stomach, said: "Neixiu, there is a level, a height, let people deeply admire, rather than be scared by you to avoid."

"All right." Xia Xia nods. "Although I can't understand you, Dad, what you said is very good."

Lin Zhonghuai laughed. "Thank you very much."

"You're welcome."

It turns out that this is Xia Xia Xia's secret. Mo Mo is stunned by what he hears outside. Suddenly, he can't help but feel sorry. It seems that he has gone too far with this little cousin.